Is it ok for someone for cheat on you but never apologise, just say i'm back, i'm here? Should a person not have the humanity to apologise and explain their actions? In my experience the cheater usually blames the other person to get away with and justify their actions - what do you reckon? Should people not take responsibility for their actions?
2007-06-30 03:23:13 · 25 answers · asked by Judybaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is never and i mean NEVER ok to cheat. If for some reason u feel u wanna mess with someone else then if u ever cared for the person ur with then you would let them go instead of being unfaithfull. There is no pain like being cheated on by someone u love and as far as im concerned theres no going bk 2 that relationship bcoz the trust is gone. Cheating is unjustifyable in any circumstances. If it was really the only course of action u could take then u should have the courtesy to end the relationship first. Its is not ok to think u can just waltz bk into a relationship after cheating especially if u wont even apologise, there shouldnt even b a relationship to go bk to. Honey who ever cheated on u is not worth your tears or ur time, find someone who will treat u right and appreciate u 4 u xx
2007-06-30 03:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. There is never a good scenario for anyone to cheat. If the cheater arrives back into the relationship & doesn't apologize for their prior actions (and blames the other for their cheating) then it is a sure sign that there is 1) no respect in the relationship & 2) that the cheater will cheat again.
You can't force people to take responsibility for their cheating, but you (the person who was cheated on) can take responsibility for your own life & happiness. The wronged person can leave the cheater & refuse to allow them back into their life. By allowing the cheater to re-instate themselves back into their life, the wronged person is allowing themselves to be continually victimized. This is the only thing the wronged person can be blamed for: allowing the cheater the opportunity to do it again.
2007-06-30 10:28:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not ok to cheat, and yes people should totally be accountable for their actions.
But you are the only one who can decide if you will take them back. You need to decided if you can get over it. If you can't then leave him alone.
Once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-06-30 10:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Both should take responsibility for their actions, NOT just one person.When confronted by GOD, Adam blamed Eve, Eve blamed the serpent, the serpent looked around and there was no one left to blame ,so GOD started passing sentence starting with the serpent and then passed judgment on Eve and Adam.No one escaped judgment because all were guilty.It will be the same way when we all stand before the LORD.I want to make things right here,regardless of whether or not anyone else does.
2007-06-30 10:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
is it OK to cheat? -NO
Should that take responsibility for there actions? - Yes
Is it likely that they will - NO but there cheating action they have shown themselves to be immature, and selfish.
You can not control that your decision is to decide if you want to deal with there lack of responsibility and or caring for you and stay with them. Cheaters cheat again where are your limits on what you will tolerate?
2007-06-30 10:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course people should take responsibility for thier actions. I alway new when my ex was cheating on me because he would accuse me. Guilty conscience!
Tell the person cheating on you to F**K OFF! You are worth more than that! Love and trust go together, and if they can't be trusted......
2007-06-30 10:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No t is never right to cheat. but people make mistakes, that is what makes us human - if they are truly sorry and apologize and never do it again then it was a mistake. and it is not just cheating that people make excuses up about to justify their actions. it happens in all areas of life
2007-06-30 10:27:08 · answer #7 · answered by brandi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is NEVER ok to cheat! if you feel like going out and finding someone else to make out/have sex with then you should first talk to the person you are committed with to end the relationship you have right now because you obviously don't like it and your partner should not suffer, even if they apologize the deed is done, it was your decision and its your fault.
It is never ok to cheat even if your partner cheats on you first! You should just end to relationship and not lower down to that level, there is no justice coming out of it.
2007-06-30 10:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by Protarget22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is NEVER ok to cheat and the person who does is just GREEDY.so saying if the person turns around give them the benefit of the doubt and see if you both can work things out
2007-06-30 10:39:09 · answer #9 · answered by sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an issuse like this with my BF and he didnt want to talk to me about it. I just had to chill and then say...I dont know if I can be mad riht now because I havent heard your side of the story, so tell me what happened. He did and it turns out the girl made up a story about it to make me mad and create drama (she likes him) so ya...talk and they should explain
2007-06-30 10:28:54 · answer #10 · answered by Horsenaround2023 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋