This is a long story, sorry. In September my friend was going out with him, then we went to a football him [friend=jen her bf= ben]
I tagged along, and the moment he saw me he was totally flirting with me... and then later that night ben broke up with jen. Ben was going to ask me out.. Then we kinda didnt talk for a while. This guy is a pimp seriously he probaly has gone out with 200 girls.. and broke every girls heart. He has mine though. I saw him downtown tonight and we just talked for a while he is so sweet and hot. I really like him and have for 2 years. Please help me... what should i do... i can not live like this another day. Thank you, your answer was probaly verY helpful.
is it love?
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my friends said he was flirting with me today...!
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2007-06-29 18:17:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG. i dealt with the same type of guy. and trust me...it's not worth the time. he likes u bc he thinks he can get something from u. at the end of the day UR the one getting hurt...not him bc he knows that he can just go get another girl. trust me...i broke up with the guy bc he was flirting with other girls while he was dating me and that was like two or three weeks ago and i cant keep my mind off of him...it just messes up ur life.and its hard to get ovr him. i've gotten ovr so many other guys soo much easier then him. i would just forget abotu this guy ben.
2007-06-29 18:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by shorty babee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you take this guy, you will be the next Jen as soon as a new girl comes along. The odds are against you being the one and only special girl out of 201. It really annoys me how some of you gals think. All these single guys that don't look too bad and that are very nice, meanwhile you want to reward a dirtbag. No doubt because of his looks or popularity. If you pick the shallow life, you are going to have your castle built on the sand. When the first rains come, you'll be old, pregnant and alone. There is nothing glamorous about being heart broken or cheated on. You will probably just feel hurt and humiliated in front of your friends and family.
To answer your question, no I don't think it's love. Unless you love players, I think you're just infatuated.
2007-06-30 09:26:32 · answer #2 · answered by SYSV1RUS 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This guy is a pimp in your words, has already dated like 200 girls and your gonna be the next on his list?? Id run/ play hard to get for a year or two lol. Guys love the chase, run hard. unless you just want to be another number on his belt. Hes a BIG flirt, how else did he get 200 girls, plus wonder what else hes gotten from all those girls, better be careful/very careful!!.
2007-06-30 01:25:53 · answer #3 · answered by butterfly7 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If hes gone out with 200 girls thats not a good sign i dont think you want to get involed with a guy like that. Just my advice.
2007-06-30 01:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by Kelsey L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok heres what you do reread what you just typed about this guy from a different perspective.As if you were reading what a friend wrote.He has broken everyones heart he has dated?
Plez you have a choice your emotions are involved but you need to think about this guy not just he has your heart, alot of men can claim that about a woman. Then they abuse them.
2007-06-30 01:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by dove2002 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How can it be love when you already know he has no respect for you and is only out to get what he wants? You know he's a "pimp" by your words, so how could he possibly be serious about you?
2007-06-30 01:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wanna meet him for trade secret!
2007-06-30 01:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by Titan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR HIM, IF HE BREAKS YOUR HEART THEN YOUR NOT ALONE RIGHT? I HOPE JEN ISNT YOUR FRIEND ANYMORE
2007-06-30 01:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by realgirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no it isn't love and if he a player you will probably just be one more of his trophies. your better than that and don't forget it.
2007-06-30 01:21:45 · answer #9 · answered by susan w 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes you are in love in love with his fakeness
2007-06-30 01:21:20 · answer #10 · answered by Flakiss 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋