hotel dates are what we do every few weeks...we are "together" sexually everyday (sometimes two or three times a day) however we live in a house with several other people that have serious boundary issues (his family-don't ask, I never meant to move in but his dad couldn't pay the bills w/o me and now I'm on the wait list for an apartment) so even though we are together often enough we can very rarely take off our clothes and what's even worse is I'm what you call a "screamer" so when it feels just so good I almost always end up biting the blankets to keep quiet which I HATE having to do...so we go to the hotel once in awhile to just have a "sex fest" this weekend we're having another one and I was wondering if there was anything I could do to surprise him? the date starts sunday so I've got one day to get ready (shop, learn, whatever...)
we have lingerie, books, videos, "fun" condoms ... but I was thinking about a game or a toy (he's not very kinky-but we both LOVE games in bed)
t/y
2007-06-29 18:14:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex dice are fun. One gives body parts, the other gives actions to perform. Nice random play can be great.
If you're looking for something a bit slower, try Monopoly. But find new and interesting ways to pay the rent.
2007-06-29 18:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Role play. Meet at the hotel as a french maid and have him play the butler, or be a sexy nurse and let him play doctor. The possibilities are endless.
2007-06-29 18:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't a group outing that has to be planned. Why don't you just do what feels natural to you and let nature take it's course? If you are only engaged and already use toys, videos and outfits, what are you going to possibly do in 20 years to spice it up when all this stuff is already old and there's nothing left?
2007-06-29 18:19:04 · answer #3 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's probably difficult to do something *totally new* on that short of notice... but you could always dress up in a costume (nurse, policewoman, etc.). That's just different enough to grab his attention... but not TOO kinky.
2007-06-29 18:22:52 · answer #4 · answered by Marc M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Befor you go to the hotel go to the sex store...on the way...it really spruced up my 17 year marriage...Im a screamer too.....
2007-06-29 18:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by Betty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋