i have had very many negative and abusive experiences with them at school and work; mostly bullying and them trying to intimidate and dominate me; usually using my sensitivities against me.
do you know anyone who is very nervous of east asians or another race?
this is a problem for me and i feel unsafe in this world when i think that they can control alot of ppl like they tried to control me. i can't seem to get along with them if i don't do what they want me to when i work or socialize with them. how come?
in fact i believe they control the world right now and the only way to get along with them is to agree with whatever they say and do as they want us to do.
thanks for any help you can offer.
2007-06-29 16:30:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Anyone with a bad experience will be nervous. If you got bit by a dog, or ate bad seafood, you may not be running back for more anytime soon. That is understandable. Maybe you need to find an asian that you can talk with get to know. Move past your fear with some education. Not everyone is alike. Try not to be places alone when you might be harassed. Maybe changing you id would be a start for a more peaceful life? Take care and good luck!
2007-07-03 17:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by verlee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first ur not racist(u didnt mention it but imsure someone will)
u had a bad experience with a specific race and now have generalized it toward all. u need to remeber it was a small group who abused u and not the whole population. By sayin only when they control u, their ur firends is not true bc if someone needs to control u to be ur firend then they arent ur friend. they dont control the world, and no one has to do what they want. its simply theyhave the largest population, but dont dominate the world. You need to find a group of asians who will be ur friends for u but dont generalize all people based on a few experiences
2007-06-29 16:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by the guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same thing can be said of any people who are intent on taking advantage of somebody. Unless they are resorting to physical abuse and other criminal activities, the only thing you can do is to take control of your own environment. Don't do what they say. If they are not happy with you, then so be it. Using your own sensitivieies against you? In another words, they are making you feel bad? How can you feel bad when you know they are using you?
What you describe has nothing to do with someone's nationality or ethnicity.
I choose whom I socialize with, and the activities that I participate in. Why can't you?
2007-06-29 16:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there are a lot of them who go to my school but they dont really scare me or do anything to make me scared of them. Its probably just the community of them that live in your area.
2007-06-29 16:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rasist. Besides if an east asian is bullying you then youre a puss
2007-06-29 17:40:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋