boys are easy, you know they want your body. but i'm having a hard time figuring this guy out, he made me feel things i've never felt and now he says we are friends. someone help me.
2007-06-29 13:14:37 · 11 answers · asked by Jean B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Many men play women like they are a video game. They do and say the right things in order for the action to proceed the way they want it to. When they are done playing the woman, they lack the courage to say that they played her, so they say they want to be friends.
By the way, not all men want your body even if it is physically attractive. Some men actually want to have friends that are women, but the women think the men either have to want to take them to bed or have nothing to do with them.
I would guess that the feelings you have never felt were created completely in your mind. They are your desires and your wishes, not promises he made to you.
2007-06-29 13:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's game..make you feel things you never felt but yet they are too scared to commit or maybe not scared, just not ready.. & men & boys do this..Just like women do now a days....It's frustrating but it's part of this dating circle..So many people get hurt behind it..
2007-06-29 13:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by Unique Soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off does he noticably flirt with you? If so then most likely you are more than just friends! A wise person once said that everybody falls in love with a friend of the opposite sex sometime in their friendship. Just make sure that you dont rune your friendship in the process of looking into this 'friends' thing with him!
2007-06-29 13:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by danielle m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that men get more complicated as they get older. They keep adding baggage from past relationships and society makes it harder for them to talk about their feelings. A man has to feel comfortable with a woman and eventually he might open up and be honest, until then, they just keep getting weirder and weirder!
2007-06-29 13:19:39 · answer #4 · answered by graybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off - boys and men are pretty much the same in needs and wants.
your being very vague in what you felt and when you felt it. i assume he want's to be friends. however he may have filled some deep emotional need in some way - and you connected on that level.
if you really feel this way - you have to tell him what you told us. he's not going to get it, unless he's deeply emotional and intuistic.
2007-06-29 13:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by mike s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be wanting to take the relationship slow --- older means more experienced means been hurt more --- and whats wrong with being friends??? --- if he is not chasing after anyone else and only concerned with you then there is more there than just friendship --- who cares what he says its how he acts that is the clincher ---- best wishes
2007-06-29 13:19:54 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 19:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men dont reveal what they truely feel. Sometimes they play around too, that's why when they say something, it catches you off guard.
crazy men...
hm!
2007-06-29 13:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are too busy trying to understand women.
2007-06-29 13:19:42 · answer #9 · answered by Max 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are difficult thats true.. i dont really bother with them..
2007-06-29 13:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by Parachutes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋