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2007-06-29 11:12:48 · 11 answers · asked by Tennis2127 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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The confidence list

--People who believe in themselves take charge of their actions.
--They act assertively, speak calmly and listen properly.
--They're flexible towards people, circumstances and all things new.
--They're able to give genuine praise and to accept constructive criticism.
--They evaluate themselves realistically.
--They appreciate their achievements.
--They learn from their mistakes.
--They aren't run by 'shoulds', 'musts' and 'ought tos'.
--When an opportunity comes up they say 'Why not?' rather than 'Why?'
--They feel they can influence situations and outcomes.

How to become confident

1.Know yourself
Think about the sort of person you are. Think about your dominant personality characteristics. Then identify what motivates you; what challenges you; what frightens you; and what pleases you.

Examine what you want out of life, long term, as well as what you currently give, and take, from it. Put all this together to reveal a holistic picture of who you are.

2.Like yourself
Now, ask yourself, do you approve of the person you see? Or do you feel negative and critical and guilty about who you are? It's more likely that you experience a combination of all these reactions.

.Write down all your good points. If this is too difficult to do alone, get a friend to help ? they may be able to perceive what you can't. Read over your list. Focus on it. Recognise it to be true. Remember it. Trust it.

3.Accept yourself
To find the meaning of confidence, and to get closer to achieving it, we have to, first of all, accept the way we are ? today. Tell yourself that you can still aim for improvements for the future, but that you are happy with yourself in the present.

2007-06-29 11:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

60% of all human communication is nonverbal, body language; 30% is your tone, so that means 90% of what you're saying ain't coming out of your mouth.

Good posture, eye-contact, proper touching, and looking up every 7-8 seconds shows confidence.

2007-06-29 18:22:18 · answer #2 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0 0

if you want to feel confidence it will come from inside you imean from your soul feel that you are able to do every thing feel that you can remove any obstacles facing you having the ability to solve any problem what ever it is size and you should understand that confidence one of building factor of the character

2007-06-29 18:21:50 · answer #3 · answered by miracle_student_scientist 2 · 0 0

By BEING confident. That means that you understand who you are, what you are good at, what you are not good at, what you like, what you dislike, what you stand for, who your friends are and what they'd help you with, who you can count on and who you can't count on when things go bad.

If you know these things then you ARE confident.

2007-06-29 18:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by William D 5 · 0 0

Walk with you head up. Look into peoples eyes when you speak. Smile and act like you've got it going on and your too good to miss

2007-06-29 18:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by hollygolightly 5 · 0 0

By not saying bad things about yourself.

2007-06-29 18:14:53 · answer #6 · answered by Cindyyy<3 4 · 0 0

well.......

if somone was being mean to you look in there eyes and say, I dont giva crap! then they will look at you saying go hom eand walk away witth your head UP! dont even tell anyone think this in your head

Im free to be me!!!!!!

2007-06-29 18:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Believe in yourself.

2007-06-29 18:16:53 · answer #8 · answered by DEBBIE G 4 · 0 0

to be yourself no matter what

2007-06-29 18:15:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

confidence for wat? are you confident brushing your teeth? probably do so you are confident.

2007-06-29 19:35:52 · answer #10 · answered by bullet b 4 · 0 0

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