I mean like you guys have so much fun together and hold hands and you say the big three words and he is just sitting there.
2007-06-29 10:20:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you ask him the reason of his pause.
He's the best person in perfect position to answer you.
2007-06-29 10:26:22 · answer #1 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying to someone you love them will make them feel cornered and with too much responsibility when the other person haven't decided yet if they want to stay in a long term relationship, because they are still getting to know you.
2007-06-29 17:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by gumsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you two been together? Has he told you anything about how he feels toward you? You need to think about it yourself because only you know what he is like. I would like to think that he was shocked in a good way but that is because I would be.
2007-06-29 17:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by armin_van_burren50 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably didn't see it coming. Its ok that you feel that way, however you are probably the only one in the relationship that wants to take it to the next level. The best way to bring him out of his shell is try to get him to share his feelings not necessarily about yours and his relationship, but things in general. Try to get him to show is softer side.
2007-06-29 17:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by Geoffrey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't expect anything in return. Love is given freely without conditions so if you expect something in return for the "I love you" then you may be expecting too much from him. He may enjoy your company, but that does not mean he's in love with you.
2007-06-29 17:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You caught him off guard. big time. he probably had no idea how to respond. a lot of guys are like that. don't take offense to it...he might not be ready to say it yet. don't pressure him to say it back either that wont help anything.
2007-06-29 17:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by linkinparkchick1605 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the i said those words to,he said it first and i was the one sitting there for a minute!
2007-06-29 17:24:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's prob. shocked that you said that. Maybe it's something that he'd been wanting to say for a while.
2007-06-29 17:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by vexen431 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is prolly shocked that you said that!! either that or isnt ready to know that. maybe he was wanting to say it back but was lost for words
2007-06-29 17:26:38 · answer #9 · answered by .\.Living.In.A.Dream./. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, now that means that he's probably shocked!
But it's ok just try to take it slowly with him!
2007-06-29 17:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋