ive been dating this guy for a year now and afew months weve lived together for 6months I love this man very much but he seems to confuse me. He has different personalites somtimes he wants to be that good hard working man who wants a wife and kids and the next minute he wants to party like a rock star. He has lied to me in the past and i fear if i continue with him he will continue to lie about things. i ask him if he just wants to be friends and he says no i cant figure out if he really loves me and wants to be with me why does he act this way? should i still leave? or just let things go as they come? i want happiness and success in my life i want a family. can he give it to me oneday or am i wasting my time with him...
2007-06-29 09:08:16 · 5 answers · asked by Chena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How can you leave him when you love him so much? By leaving him and moving on with your life, you'll get over him. Dump the loser. He is only hurting you and making you miserable. Leave him. Stop talking to him. Hang out with your friends. Have some fun. Get some exercise. Keep busy! In time, you'll get over him, and then you'll be ready to find a guy that will treat you right. Don't be the victim that is trapped by a lying jerk the rest of your life. That is the path you are treading on. You CAN leave him, you CAN get over him, and you CAN do better. MUCH better. Good luck!
2007-06-29 09:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you already know what you want in life. You're already asking the right questions. That says a lot about you.
I know that you would want to be with someone with whom a lasting relationship is possible. Do you think that this person is really able to provide that to you?
I suggest that you take a break from the relationship, and have a good inventory of what is important to you (i.e. education, family realtionship etc.) You'll be amazed how quickly you could answer your own question.
Is it really love? You think so? Or is it just the fear of being alone. Guys will always be there. Look around you - there's a lot of cute guys just like him. Actually, there's millions of them out there just like him (some even better) who you could potentially end up with - and have a better lasting relationship.
Meanwhile, I thik you'll be much happier being alone, finding yourself. . . and when the right person comes along, he would love you . . . the same as you love him.
2007-06-29 16:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can not/ should not "chase" happiness- happiness is already ours for the taken..Sometimes we hold onto things God is trying to pull from us(like unstable relationships). If you can find the strength & love for yourself- please let go- he doesnt even deserve you nor your love & devotion. i know from its experience that Letting go is never easy but i also know if something or someone isnt "FOR" you then that ssomething or someone is "AGAINST" you...You are allowing this Man to stunt your growth in life & block your many (deserved & earned) blessings... Let him go & Live life to the fullest. You cant make him be the man he should be & you dont have to try- hopefully 1 day he will realize it & get his ming right, but if not- oh well its his los & your life "Must" go on.. good luck & best wishes..
2007-06-29 16:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st and foremost if yall have been together for over an year and you don't know if he loves you or not you have answered your own question. You happiness should come first and if yall are not on the same page then it is time for you to start a new chapter with or without him
2007-06-29 16:22:04 · answer #4 · answered by lady_2_real 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has stuff and indecisions and doubts in their life. If you really love him, let him explore and don't think about leaving him unless he does something wrong.
Because you want a guy that will explore and come back to what's right, not be sucked in by it.
And beware of guys who have never "explored"
2007-06-29 16:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by simplegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋