Just tell them, they won't be happy but you'll need them with you through this.
2007-06-29 07:57:13
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answered by urstruly8604 5
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hey baby girl. I hope you are ok. Take time out to think about this coz believe me ive been there and afterwards it aint so bad. Because you are going through it now it may seem like the hardest thing to do but try to give your parents some credit. Tell them and yes, expect them to get upset coz they will but at the end of the day they cant stay mad forever. You are still their daughter and im sure they love you nomatter what. Congratulations on being a mother and soon you yourself will be a parent and you will understand your paents reaction. But the most important thing is it will pass. Take care of both you and the baby inside you. Things will be well
2007-06-29 15:32:27
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answered by milly 2
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You need to tell them and soon. It isn't healthy for you or the baby to keep this secret. The first few months are the most critical for development in your child. You need to tell them so you can begin seeing your doctor for prenatal care. Take you prenatal vitamins; and if you can't stomach them, then you can take Flintstones. Yes, your parents will more than likely be upset that you were not responsible in your behavior but it is only because they love you and they expected more out of you. Just let them know that you will need their support and make them a part of the process. Do not be down on yourself. We all have made bad choices in our lives but out of a bad decision comes a blessing. That sweet little baby will love you like nothing else. If by chance you do decide that keeping and raising the child is not an option for you, there are several wonderful adoption agencies out there to help. Many will help pay for prenatal care and delivery. God bless you honey. Everything will work out for the good. Remember that the lord does not put anything on us that we cant handle. Take care of yourself and most importantly take care of the child you have growing inside you.
2007-06-29 15:13:28
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answered by M 6
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I know what you're going through. Right after graduation I found I was pregnant. I told my mother (my parents are divorced) when her and I were going to work. That gave her 8 hrs. to digest the news before having time to discuss it with me. I was more nervous than anything, because I didn't know what her reaction would be. She did give me "the speech", but overall was VERY supportive. I since married my baby's father. Believe me though, we've since had other children, and I've been nervous about telling her about those pregnancy's too even though I'm married. Nervousness is a very natural reaction.
You'll probably get "the speech" too, but overall you'll be so happy that you told them. What seems so bad now actually isn't. Remember that this is your life and your responsibility, not theirs. That's why parents are usually upset initially, because they worry you aren't ready or able to handle this lifetime responsibility. Pregnancy isn't just a cute little belly and cute little baby clothes..... they do grow up, go to school, need doctors... etc. You'll appreciate their help too, because you'll need it sooner or later.
2007-06-29 16:57:05
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answered by just my opinion 2
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I've been there! Just tell them. Eventually they are going to find out. They're going to scream and yell at you (most likely) might as well get it over and done with now. Maybe they'll be understanding. GOOD LUCK!!!! By the way, how old are you? If you are old enough, they really can't tell you anything. If you are not, then you're gonna have to hear them.
2007-06-29 15:00:33
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answered by just me 2
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I had the same problem when I was pregnant with my son. I put off telling my parents for months, until it was going to be apparent. I was terrified, but when I told my mother she was amazingly supportive. If you are sure that you are happy about this baby, your parents will be happy for you. Surprisingly, parents WANT to become grandparents. They'll be scared for you but they love you and will help you. By the way, congratulations! It's going to be the best thing in your life!
2007-06-29 15:05:59
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answered by LULU1114 2
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I'm guessing you are under 18. Just tell them. No, they won't be happy. Your dad will probably hit the ceiling and your mom will probably cry, but tell them anyway.
2007-06-29 15:02:00
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answered by Anonymous
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this happen to a friend...what she did is she told another family member she can trust like her grandmom and then told her parent to come over and then told her parents she was going to have a baby. her grandmother was there to hold her hand to give her the strength to tell her parents. yes there was yelling and crying but u have to let them know....
2007-06-29 18:00:41
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answered by j.j 1
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my sister went through her whole pregnancy without saying a word! she was 13 and we didn't even know she was pg until she went into labor! she should have said something because she didn't have any prenatal care didn't even go to the doctor ! thank god the baby came out perfect but she should have said something to my parents!!
2007-06-29 15:06:53
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answered by notyochic 6
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Hon, they love you they are going to be upset at first so be calm, they will come around because you are very important to them. It is going to be hard, but have to tell them. Be strong and hang in there.
2007-06-29 15:00:01
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answered by bluebird 4
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