A friend told me that as a freshman in college she had sex with a guy she met at a bar. They never exchanged phone numbers or anything. That has always been a fantasy of mine, but I have always been too chicken. Did you ever have sex with a one night stand or on a first date? How did it turn out?
2007-06-29 07:43:17 · 32 answers · asked by 2Cute2B4Got 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I sure have. It turned out with me getting a non-curable STD. So good luck with your fantasy!
2007-06-29 07:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
I have. Its fun for an easy fix, but then you have to wonder if they had anything. So safe sex is a must in those situations. For a guy, I suppose its easier, because we don't carry the emotions that usually come with sex. But, if both parties agree its only a one night thing, then it can be exciting.
One fantasy I have yet to live out is to meet a woman and have sex with her without even getting her name, at least not until afterwards. Not a prostitute, but meet someone, like online, and just chat and maybe talk on the phone, but meet, do our thing and not know their name.
2007-06-29 07:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by George P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex many times with ladies I just met (first date and one-night stands). How did it work out: one I married, several became girlfriends (for longer or shorter periods), others became friends with benefits, and some I never saw again.
I have also not had sex with ladies I just met, but waited. How did it work out: several became girlfriends (for longer or shorter periods), others became friends with benefits, and some I never saw again.
People blow the wait for sex out of proportion. I haven't found that it makes any difference on how the relationship develops based on how long you wait to have sex. The only thing I know is that if some girl/woman makes me wait more then 4 weeks I would wonder what is up. I have also changed since I was younger, since back then I would jump in quicker (i.e. push for it sooner), but as I got older I have found that I want/need a better connection with somebody to enjoy sex. However, depending on the person it takes different length of time to develop the necessary connection.
2007-06-29 07:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt suggest doing that. I would never have sex with someone I just met. Although I have had sex on the first date and a one night stand. Sex on the first date was with a person that I knew for 4 years. We wernt really friends but I was great friends with her brother. We hung out one night and hit it off really well. Been together for over a year now.
My one night stand was with a friend of mine from high school. We were great friends. Neither one of us had a boy/girl friend. We wanted sex, so we did it. Nothing ever happened between us. We remained frineds.
2007-06-29 07:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by wurm_15136 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have done it too many times. One night stands are good because you dont have to worry about what he is gona think about you, you can be wild and let go but then again - you never know what you are getting into (i have had some disapointments)
Sex on a first date -i have done that but you will never have serious relationship with that guy.
2007-06-30 14:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by Natalie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh! That maybe a fantasy of yours to have sex with someone you don't know but if happen to meet the wrong man(with a disease) then you will be out of luck. Remember condoms aren't 100% reliable. If your were to accidentaly get pregnant you wouldn't have a number to contact so you could reach him. Just to let you know that I heard that the HIV virus can go through the teeny tiny holes of a condom. I also heard that condoms don't always protect you from STD's. Condoms break. Think of this next time you want to trust your body with a man you don't know.
2007-06-29 07:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by voiceofanangell 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yep and Yep....with one night stands it just that u never hear from the again. some dudes that i have had sex with on the first date have turned out to be really good friends of mine. granted when i'm not in a relationship its friends with benefits but when i am we're just friends. it's cool how sex can bring ppl together. it's the one that that everyone on the face of this earth has in common.
2007-06-29 07:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Mostly it turned out badly, but my boyfriend now, and the father of my child - when I met him, it was at my cousin's wedding in Central America. During the wedding, he wanted a smoke so bad (he was in the wedding party) and he didn't have any on him because he had nowhere to put them that wouldn't be obvious. Somebody mentioned to him that the girl from Canada smoked (most girls there don't, because they consider it worse for a girls to smoke than a guy), so he approached me and asked if I had any. I said yeah, and we wandered off to enjoy a smoke together. We talked a bit and I told him I hadn't been out to the clubs there yet and I was leaving in 3 days, it was my last weekend there. He said him and a friend were planning to go, so they took me with them after the wedding. We danced and he dropped me off where I was staying at my aunt and uncle's house, but first he took me to this river and we went skinny dipping! The water was pretty cool though, so we went back to his truck and ended up having sex. He took my phone number and I never expected to get a call from him but he was up in Canada a few months later (just for the summer) and phoned me! We hung out and became good friends (with benefits!) and the following year he came back again. We started dating and I went back to Central America with him. I had planned to stay there for the winter, but I got pregnant like right away and came back for the health care. Now we live in Canada and we have a beautiful baby boy, and plan to get married next year!
2007-06-29 07:55:01 · answer #8 · answered by likewhatever 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it was very good and hot. Then we hooked up 4 more times that week, lol. It turned out he was on the rebound, so nothing else much happened. We are still friends and I would love for him to be over her :) But if you are just looking for physical go for it
2007-06-29 07:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by Comebackmylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It exciting but scary at the same time. Good thing- u get pleasure and don't have to put up a fight for it. Bad thing- don't know who u r messing with n if they have some type of STD u can catch with a condom on.
2007-06-29 07:47:30 · answer #10 · answered by JLC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i have on a handful occasions. Im not necessarily proud of that... but.. im not a "wait until marriage" kinda girl and ive been safe.
To answer your question.. i regret a few.
But, i had sex with my current boyfriend on our first date and we are now madly in love and heading in the marriage direction.
Its just a personal decision.. you just have to be prepared if the person doesnt call the next morning or something...
2007-06-29 07:47:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋