i have a freind who is getting married soon but she is all so heavily pregnant and she has just found out that her due date is on the day of the wedding what should she do she has already proponsed the wedding 2ic what to do
2007-06-29 07:31:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
proposne sorry
2007-06-29 08:04:51 · update #1
She's far into her pregnancy, but JUST FOUND OUT her due date??? HUH??? Heck, I knew mine a few minutes after I knew I was pregnant.
Now, she needs to know that as your pregnancy progresses, the doctor will change the due date, if he/she feels the inital date is off by more than a week. But you have to realize also, this is an educated guess on the doctor's part. That baby comes when it's ready to come.
Personally, I wouldn't plan on getting married anywhere within 2 weeks before a due date, or I'd wait until at least 4 months after having the baby. If I were her, I'd move the wedding up, and keep it simple.
2007-06-29 08:01:55 · answer #1 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I would postpone the wedding. There may be other reasons she has postponed it twice, but now she needs to be worried about the safety of the baby and herself. The stress from the wedding may cause her to go into labor early or when she isn't prepared, and could cause medical harm to her or the baby. Just postpone it a few months after the baby is born, or, if being married before the baby is born, go to the courthouse or hire an officiant for a simple intimate wedding with just them, their parents, and maybe their closest friends. I think having a reception right now may be a bad idea, that causes the most stress, and the potential for accident is greater.
2007-06-30 16:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by LoveWithNoBoundaries 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she cant exactly move the due date now can she? She's going to have to A) move the wedding or B) take the chances of the baby being late or at least a week early. A sounds like the better of the two.
2007-06-29 15:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will have to either move the wedding and have it before the baby is due or have the wedding after. That is really all she can do. And people will understand. Because there is nothing she can do once the baby wants to come out.
2007-06-29 14:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by TJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she does not have to postpone the wedding for a third time, move the wedding up earlier. That way, the wedding takes place still and she is legally married when the baby is born.
2007-06-29 15:00:04 · answer #5 · answered by Keep on Truckin' 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, either move the wedding a few weeks closer before the date or wait until after the baby. OR she can have induced labor. Everyone should understand.
Tell her GOOD LUCK!
2007-06-29 15:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by CAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she should speak with her doctor, maybe they can plan to induce labor a little a head of time. Or she can just pray the little rascal doesn't decide to show up at the wedding. Give her my best.
2007-06-29 14:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by bluebird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just because her due date is that day does not mean she will have her baby that day.
proponsed? I think you mean "postponed"?
I would still have it that day but have a plan just in case she gives birth during the ceremony or reception or before.
2007-06-29 14:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by Terri 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Babies rarely come on the due date. I'd say just go for it.
2007-06-29 17:29:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move it up and do it in the next few weeks.
Congrats on that baby and wedding.
Do it before the baby
2007-06-29 14:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋