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i had a guy that i talked 2 and at first i asked him if he wanted 2 hang out as friends and he was cool w taht then he tellls me out of no were that he wanted 2 have sex w me so bad he couoldnt deny it when can we have its and so hes 31 im 20 which yea there is a big difference n the age but still its that fact taht after he told me this he said well n alll honesty dont u think ur 2 young 4 me and so wat i dont get is y he told me he liked me and alll that if he was gonna say that i was 2 young 4 him

2007-06-29 06:52:43 · 23 answers · asked by Shi 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

23 answers

Yeah, he just wanted sex. And he is pointing out the age difference so you don't try and have an actual relationship with him. Sounds like he is a jerk. Stay away, you deserve better.

2007-06-29 06:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by Megan F 4 · 0 0

My dear, he is telling you that you are too young for him because he is trying to make you feel inadequate for not allowing him to seduce you and have sex with him. What you need to tell him is that "YES. You are too young for any man who thinks that age is a condition for having sex with no strings attached. You would not be having sex with anyone you just met even if you were his age." He is thinking in an extremely juvenile manner if his idea of becoming friends includes having sex. Tell him to go and hire a prostitute, then come back to you when he gets old enough to understand the difference between a friend and a sex object.

2007-06-29 08:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0 0

I think hes being honest that he wants the sex, but hes trying to tell you that after that there will be no relationship because youre just young and hot and it would be silly to actually try to make a relationship out of it. He wants one thing. If you give that to him expect not to hear from him afterwards.

2007-06-29 06:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by timssterling 4 · 0 0

Yea I would say that this guy was just looking for a piece of booty. Thats what they usually do is tell you they like you then if you tell them that you want to wait or i don't think it is a good idea. They come up with some excuse to not see you again.

2007-06-29 07:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by onehotmama6582 1 · 0 0

he is just trying to sweet talk you and make u feel special and then he will forget about u and you be another notch on his bedpost and if he isnt a player than he just really wants to get laid just for the sake of being able to brag about it! and sex outside of wedlock is not only dangerous with the fact of getting pregnant and diseases and crap it is the emotional struggle u feel with yourself and the conviction and the regret u feel because sex does not necsecarily make u closer, it can actually bring you farther apart and even those couples who have sex outside of wedlock end up getting married usually end up getting divorced because the intent of the intimacy isnt as intimate as it was before and they begin to gorw farther and farther apart and besides, that day u do meet Mr. Right and he is still a virgin, how do u think he would feel if u got married and u still have that extra baggage, it is going to make him feel bad and the whole realtionship will be untrusting and akward, and wouldnt it be wonderful in our generation to know that they are men who are actually saving themselves because they really want to know what love is and it is not just sex, but in wedlock it can bring u close together and there are no regrets. just do what is right and dont fill your life with regret, fill it with the promises of tomorrow, and do u know that there is only one person who can help u in this tough situation, it is Jesus Christ who wants you to know ultimate love and that is by him, with the love of Christ you dont have to compromise yourself to feel loved (not saying you are) but for all the lonley people out there there is someone out there and he is waiting right now 4 u to recieve him, anyone who feels a conviction right now email me and we will pray together and even if there were mistakes made in your life, i've made stupid mistakes 2 and no one is better than anyone, we have all sinned and fallen short to the glory of God! please if u feel it dont fight it , it truly is the right thing 2 do and yes there will still be struggles, but instead of going through them alone you have someone who is there and whoever said the Christian life was perfect is wrong, the only thing perfect in Christianity is God himself.

2007-06-29 07:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by girly_girl 2 · 0 0

plz don't do it!
he is 2 old 4 u mostly cuz ur still pretty young
if u barely no him u don't no if that's all he wants 4rm u
just don't do it...try finding a guy that's around ur age
but if u really really like this guy...i mean really!
then stay w/him but don't get 2 that point yet

PURITY!!~~~~~!!!!!~~!~!~

2007-06-29 06:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by hope 3 · 0 0

Men always tell women anything to get what they want. Don't be a fool. Regret lurks a short distance beneath!

2007-06-29 06:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

He didn't say that he liked you, he said that he wanted to have sex with you...those are his honest intentions and if you are not prepared to be in that type of a situation cut him loose!

2007-06-29 06:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

thats all he wanted from the start. he's too old, you should be wary of guys like that. why can't he find someone his own age? very suspicious.

2007-06-29 06:56:37 · answer #9 · answered by Kaila G 3 · 0 0

I think he just wanted sex, and he likes younger girls.
I think you should dump him and find someone else who is closer to your age.

2007-06-29 06:55:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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