I met a girl two weeks ago. We hung out four times and cuddled and she slept on my chest and i really like her. She has been on vacation this week and we have talked for a half hour every day and texts, etc. I want to tell her I really like her and ask her out when she gets back. Ive known her two weeks (one week she was on vacation). She told me she "recently broke up with her bf" and I dont want to go too fast and I want make sure shes not using me.
Should I hang out with her more before telling her this?
2007-06-29 06:18:28 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think if you asked her out for a casual lunch or dinner, eventually she will understand. Go for it =)
2007-06-29 06:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by Moosey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time..or you'll be the reason you'll get used as a form of rebound for her. It'll be her fault. Don't give her the option. If you want.. be friends with her.. or do what you guys do.. but no more than that.. You have to be sure of your feelings.. and you have to be sure of her feelings. It's too soon to tell. If you cross the line and kiss or something else.. you'll risk it all. If you're willing to do that.. go ahead. If you want better chances of this becoming a good relationship.. then keep your pace.. slow it down... don't cross the line, and don't get carried away. Ball's in your court.
2007-06-29 09:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by Rogee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no time limit on feelings.....go ahead and go for it - don't pass up an opportunity for a summer love.....my Ex broke up with me and i met this guy the next day - we've been togher and inseperable for over 7 years now! We got married and have 3 kids! Go for it - becasue you never know when "the one" is gonna pop up! Tell her you really like her and aske her out and watch your cutie melt in your hands...i bet she's on vacation right now all googly about you - waiting for your call - waiting for you to ask her out....do it man, get the balls and GO! :)
2007-06-29 06:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by Rebekkah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her and want it to be serious then keep hanging out with her, take her on dates etc. Don't rush it though. Since she just broke up with someone you want to make sure that her feelings for you are genuine. The last thing you want is to be rebound when you really like this girl. As far as telling her that you like her, go for it. Just make sure that she knows that you want to do things at her pace. It never hurts to tell someone that you like them.
2007-06-29 06:27:20 · answer #4 · answered by IeNj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl might feel volnurable about a breakup when she is on the rebound especially if she was in a long relationship, and it would definately be insensitive for you to ask her to go out with you now.... i think you should spend more time with her, as friends at first.. then gradually work up to asking her to be ur girlfriend.......
2007-06-29 06:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her...and she just recently broke up...yes..she is on the rebound...probably not a good time to get all too serious...just take it one day at a time...keep talking, texting and spending time together, you do that...she knows you are into her...but let nature take its course...
2007-06-29 06:22:27 · answer #6 · answered by sharpie68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait a little longer. Not too long though. Let her know you are interested, but don't come on too strong. She just got out of a relationship so she might not be ready to jump right into another.
2007-06-29 06:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by Agey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out then when your out on your date just tell her i'm really into you and i know you just got out of a relationship but i would like to spend more time with you and get to know and take things slow.
2007-06-29 06:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by Babe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, man if you like her let it known! Just because she just got out of a relationship doesnt automatically make you a rebound.. your not.. If she likes you and sees better characteristics in you than her previous partner than she would be pleased to hear what you have to say
2007-06-29 06:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow. Give yourself time. I would suggest you continue talking with her, go for walks with her, and go on group dates with her. Be sure you truly like her. Give her time to see that she really likes you for you. Sometimes, without even meaning to, we get involved with someone else to simply chase away our pain from a previous relationship. She might be doing that and may not be aware she is.
2007-06-29 06:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow, youve only been seeing each other a short period. Its ok to tell smoebody that you really like them, just dont say I love you and expect her to say it back. Tell her she is someone you could see yourself with in the long haul. She will get your point and be flattered.
2007-06-29 06:22:02 · answer #11 · answered by melissaw77 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋