i hate my parents right now.. should i run away form home?

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Answer 1

no... everyone hates they're parets at one point.. but that doesnt mean everyone runs away from home... get a grip of yourself and stop saying dumb things

Answer 2

No. Even if they are terrible people they are providing you with a roof over your head and food. On the street you cannot gaurantee wither of those things. Just bide your time, get a good education, and when you can afford to go, get out. I had a terrible relationship with my parents and was emancipated at 16, I had not lived with them for 2 years before that. It was difficult because I couldnt get a full time job, and rent a place. I had to stay with different people and work doing what ever I could. These werent always desirable jobs. I was lucky enough that I didnt have to do anything illegal, but it came close a few times. Reevalute your parents, if they arent physically abusing you or sexually abusing you, or selling you into child prostitution then you can deal with it. If they just wont let you do something or buy you things then get over yourself and get a job and save so you can buy yourself those things. I know that sometimes kids just dont get along with there parents, but the time will go by very fast, so start counting down to when you can leave and take care of yourself. Plus running away is hurtful to all those that really do love you , and that you care about. and dangerous!!!

Answer 3

first, how old are you? and what is it that is so horrible that you hate your parents so much that you are contemplating running away?
when i was growing up things were a lot tougher than you kids have it now. you did not even ask why. you just did what your parents told you to do or suffer the consequences.
there were a lot of times i hated my father(we grew up with my father). i did not like or think a lot of his parenting ethics were right. but let me tell you one thing now. i am so glad that i was raised the way i was. i feel as if i have a lot more respect for people and things. i also feel i have a lot better morals than kids nowadays.
trust me when i say that when you are older you will understand a lot of the things your parents did. and you will also thank them.
also honey, the grass is not always greener on the other side.
so you better think long and hard before you do anything that drastic.

Answer 4

If you want to run away just to be "away" from your parents, because of whatever the reasons are. I would suggest you run away to some place, but not for ever, just go out for a walk and let things in your mind set in the right way. By doing this you let more oxygen into your brain, which will calm you down in a few min.

I usually tell God if I think my parents are being unfair. Most of the time they just cannot afford to buy something you want. and that upsets you. Teenagers and teens take more time to relax than the standard adult.

An adult mouse trapped in a square little room, will not start to stress and try to run until he feels he really IS trapped. But a teen mouse will start shaking and moving around in a matter of minutes, if not seconds.

Think about why you hate your parents, is it really worth it to let yourself feel that way about them? remember, if it wasn't for them, you would not be here asking this question in the first place.

God Bless you, and I hope you find the answer.

Answer 5

Where will you run to? How long will you stay? Will this solve your problems? How will you pay for food and shelter, much less clothes and fun stuff? Will things be any better when you return? Think ahead before you do anything rash.

Or, consider an activity that will let you blow off your frustration, such as sports or dancing or just hanging out with friends. Then take a fresh look at why you're angry with your parents. Write it out so you can explore all the reasons, and the causes for those reasons. Then try to come up with reasonable solutions to the problems, and suggest those to your parents.

Answer 6

So you're not getting along with your parents right now, what teenager does? The thing kids don't understand, is that our job as a parent is to take care of you, and do whats right for your well being.

So when we say that you can't do something, or you're not seeing eye to eye with us for whatever reason, it's not because we're intentionally trying to make things difficult or make you miserable! We're just trying to be a good mom or dad!

If you and your parents are having a disagreement about something, trying sitting down with them and talking things out. Discuss why you feel like you should be able to do whatever it is that you wanna do, and allow them to say why they think you shouldn't. Its' probably a good reason. Then if you still feel like you're getting a raw deal, try compromising with them; "If I wake up early tomorrow morning and help clean the house, can I stay out until 11:00 instead of 10:00?"

Just don't run-away. Running away from a problem will never solve it. It'll just leave it to fester up for when you finally come back.

Answer 7

An absolute NO. It won't solve whatever problem you may have that has brought about this "hate" ....I wouldn't want to think that you have the worst parents in the world.. the kinds who hurt their children, lock them up in the attic without light.. without water, without food... You apparently have internet access. it can't be that bad. The most that running away will do is put a gap between you and your parents. It may or may not help calm both parties' minds down. Other than that.. there's no reason for you to run away from home.. the place where one should belong the most. Please reconsider... Think about it.. Okay? :)

Answer 8

EVERYONE has those feelings time & again, prior to becoming a full-fledged adult with independence.

It's just a passing emotion. They're imperfect, but so are you, so are we ALL. You need to look beyond their faults and try to see things from their point of view:

Pretend you are the parent, and you have a child, your age, who comes to you angry all the time, disrespectful of your decisions, tells you that they HATE you and wish you were dead.
And all you can see is that beautiful baby they put in your arms.
Now, that baby is growing up, but still needs direction to make good decisions, and that child just can't understand you.
But you keep trying because you know that they will get over their anger, and deep down inside, they DO love you.

So, keep your chin up. Times will get better. In time (believe it or not) your parents will become if not THE, they will become one of your primary best friends.

I'm an old lady now, but during my time growing up, I thought that I had a decent, ok relationship with my parents. I kid you not, just last week, I came across an old picture I had of them. And what did I write on the back of the picture????????????
"Mom and Dad. My best friends, 1976"

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Answer 9

NO!!! You cannot solve anything by running away. I also believe that you are using the wrong word. Try "I am angry with my parents right now."

Are you justified in this anger? Is what they are doing legal? Are they keeping you away from things that are illegal or immoral or dangerous? If they are they not only have a right to do so, it is their responsibility.

Would you honestly let your own daughter do or behave in the way that you expect your parents to let you?

If what they are doing is illegal, then you do not have to run away, you can call the authorities. DO NOT MAKE FALSE ACCUSATIONS.

Answer 10

Well no, sometimes your parents may bug you.=, but you wont feel that way when they vanish from your life forever. One day you're gonna be real upset that you even posted this up. Anyway what are you gonna do when or if you run away where are you going to go? Your parents love you for sure and there really isnt any reason why you would run away. Dont you understand that your parents love you and I'm sure you love them too even if you dont feel it right now you do deep inside. I hope you choose the smart decision.

Answer 11

DEFINITELY NOT! If they have abused you, call the child abuse hotline or the police. If they haven't and have just told you no or got in a fight with you, tough it out. Find another adult that you trust and talk with them.
It WILL get better, I've been there. My parents & I used to always fight but when I went to college and then moved out, the relationship changed and we get along GREAT! The times they said no to me helped me learn and grow. They only did it because they loved me and could see me doing stupid things that they didn't want me to have to experience.
If you have a 2 yr old wander into the kitchen and try to touch a stove that you know is hot, you would scream at them to stop and smack their hand to keep them from doing it. That is kind of what your parents are doing. Been there, done that, don't want my baby to learn the hard way.
The best friend you can have is always there to help if you ask...just pray!