i am in a relationship of 9 years 2 kids, i met aa younger man who is allso in a relationship, no kids, to cut it short we had an affair for about 1 year, it would have continue but he moved out of state, he tryed to keep contact with me but his girl found out and called me, so much that i changed my number, ofcourse i lied and said we were just friends, now it being 9 months since i spoke to him and i miss him, i don't want to be with him, but i still want him to be a part of my life. should i forget him, before he left he told me he loved me, i think i feel the same way, but i know i will never leave my man. what should i do.
2007-06-29 05:45:52 · 3 answers · asked by indianmix 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ohhh,naughty girl - you let your heart run rampid and outta control! You gotta get it back girl, you know where your heart really lies. What you had was a fling, and your only so interested in it becasue it's an unknown lifestly other than your own, but be careful, the grass is not alwasy greener on teh otherside. But if your heart is no longer locked on your man, it will wander to find what it needs. You need to talk to your husband and re-start your romance...you just lost touch with those feelings with your man, and found them in another. Let the other guy go - it's not real, just unknown and that's why your curios and think you rin love. think about your kids, would they call him daddy? Could he provide? It's not about just being in love - it's about family for you now, and the young guy does not fit the bill. God luck sweety, listen to your brain on this one, not your heart.
2007-06-29 05:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by Rebekkah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nine years/two children. An affair. And you're still in the 9 year relationship? You may not ever forget the guy and the affair but you should remember it as a life lesson on how to mess up your heart and your head and very likely your partner and children's lives.. Your man and your children should be a priority. THE priority. He also has a partner. LET HIM GO!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-29 12:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOURE THAT SURE U WILL NEVER LEAVE YOUR MAN THEN LEAVE IT ALONE CUZ IF HE COMES BACK AND U GUYS END UP GETTIN CAUGHT..TRUST ME YOUR MAN IS NOT GONNA BE HAPPY AND U WILL LOSE THE ONE U LOVE THE MOST!!
2007-06-29 12:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by shortyduwap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋