I was on the train to central station today; it was 8:30 in the morning. This was this hot individual on the train who caught a lot of attention. He was suited and booted, tall, slim, tanned skin with an outstanding dressing sense.
As he was leaving the train and I tried so hard not to look at him and pretend I am reading the book. He slightly moved forward and whispered in my ear “SEXY”; and gave me a semi-smile and walked off the train.
What is this suppose to mean, he did not ask for my number or give him any of his contact details. I was stunned? Why would a guy do this?
Its teasing me and I can not get him off my mind…
2007-06-29 02:48:22 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's gay and was telling you he was sexy
2007-06-29 02:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by jamand 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I've got no idea why this behaviour would draw any attention except to annoy the hell out of me.
If I saw a man who looked attractive as you've described then he would immediately become less attractive if he behaved in this manner.
What he did was harrass you.
What if he had been an extremely ugly, unattractive by anyone's standards of a man whispering that in your ear?
I had this once and yelled at the guy and it wouldn't be any different if some guy I thought was visually attractive did the same thing.
If a man wants to approach me (personally speaking, mind) then whispering "sexy" in my ear is a sure fire way to annoy the hell out of me and get him marked off my list of any possibility of a connection.
If I knew him, then it may be a compliment but from a stranger, it is an invasion of another person's privacy.
Oh, and I can tell this post was from a man trying to make a point along the lines of that old argument of: "If a man is goodlooking and behaves in a despicable manner, then it's ok but when an ugly man does it, it's harrassment."
If that isn't the case, then there are some sad people out there who think it's acceptable for anyone to behave like the description just because they are considered attractive.
Awaiting the "thumbs down"......
2007-06-29 03:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by KD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babes plain and simple even booted nd suited guys can be perverts, who get a kick out of talking in that fashion, he may be cool looking but thats appearence honey whats inside that heart is what is important, im saying why didnt you kick him or elbowed him. it would have set him straight. And exchanging numbers from a complete stranger is a very risky idea, anyways i cant say it depends on you. why dont you make an effort to forget him since he was just a passing fantasy he is not worth the a dime of ur time. get over it gal, im sure there will some great guy out there waiting for u who loves and respects u.
2007-06-29 03:24:48 · answer #3 · answered by ruchika p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are two reasons why a guy mite do this, no 1 he knows he's good lookin and thought he mite abit of fun without caring about, no 2 he wants you to have the reaction u have rite now, so next time u c him he will get a reaction from you and perhaps ask u out watever.
anyway, he sounds likes he's a player and has done this b4, so he knows wat he is doin.
i would say its odd, and incredibly risky cuz he mite get a slap. What i usually do is just smile at beautifull women when passing by but not this because im not specifically after the woman.
2007-06-29 03:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is teasing you. But you tease him just be being attractive enough so he needs to say something just anything and so he said sexy lady for you.:-) It is a serious attention getter for you by this gentleman and so next time there is a chance meeting on the train you can just say hi. Then see what occurs? Maybe something? Maybe nothing.
2007-06-29 02:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by musner3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is no fool in fact he is quite the opposite he knows what exites women as you have found out if he had not said anathing you would have just looked at him and thought mmmm nice, but then you would have forgotten him, this way he gets amusment out of it and he knows that you will be thinking of him for a long time, he moved you so much you came on here lol job done, ive done similar in the past ive seen a beautifull girl and as i walk past ive just stated loud enough for her to hear your so hot, the smile she is left with on her face is a turn on for some men and the satisfaction she gets from that makes her day. even beautifull people need a lift now and then so take it in your stride babe you probable are sexy, its cool for someone to apreciate that fact, sounds like you enjoyed it. bye sexy lol.
2007-06-29 03:51:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he thought you were hot.eat it up women. small simple things like that can put a women in such a good mood.it also helps to lift your self esteem.keep up the good work,dont flaunt it just be a natural like you were and there will be more to come.try to be on the train a few more times at that time. who knows you might see him again orhe could of been an angel that you needed at that time and didnt even know it.
2007-06-29 02:59:44 · answer #7 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thought you were sexy but every time a guy thinks a woman is sexy doesn't mean that he want to get to know you on a personal level.
2007-06-29 02:52:19 · answer #8 · answered by KH 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is full of himself and is well aware of how good looking he is ....
As there was no exchange of contact details forget it and dwell on the fact this adonis thinks you are hot ....
Never happens to me .. could be something to the do with the fact i have my big muscly hubby with me ..(Or snotty kids)
Enjoy your sexiness and float back on the train tonight and look your best he could be on there again
2007-06-29 02:54:30 · answer #9 · answered by sammie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's brilliant! Do you often ride that train? He might approach you with a number next time. You can have an ongoing flirtation. What fun!
2007-06-29 02:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by elsie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Urrghh! What a slimeball!! Have nothing to do with him please!
He obviously thinks very much of himself and thinks he can pull any girl without trying. He's a right player, whether he has a girldfirend or not, I bet!
2007-06-29 02:52:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋