My girlfriend came from a christian family. She was fun and wild but after a short time started going to church and started talking about crap like forgiveness and guilt.
How do i de-program her and bring her back to reality?
2007-06-29 02:41:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Sorry but that's her decision. It's her life and if that's what she choices then that's what's right for her.
believe me she isn't the only female in the world. Go on with your life.
2007-06-29 03:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by Janet L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't. Neither should she try to turn you into a christian. You are each an individual person with the right to individual decisions. Either you both accept it and still trust and love each other, if not it won't work out.
2007-06-29 09:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should join her in her world. You are the one that needs to come back to reality.
2007-06-29 14:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by ecasea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The short answer is: you don't. She's a human being, and allowed to make her own choices. And cliche though it may be to say, she's not the only fish in the sea....
2007-06-29 09:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not have to. You just have to look at your own reality. Let her experience what she needs to experience. We are all messengers of God. Our life live is our message. And there is no one message. Don't mold her according to what you perceive as real. Your reality is your own as is every one else.
2007-06-29 09:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by batangpinoy 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You had best leave her where she is and join her there. She got it right and went back to the one that CAN keep her safe in the real world. She knows if she had continued to go down the path she was on she would have ended up in hell. If this is your "girlfriend" then you should respect her feelings and desires to follow God. IF you love her, you would.
But then you didn't say that you loved her, did you?
2007-06-29 09:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by VetSupporter 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Well if you knew she was a Christian when you began dating her, did you think she would turn away from her up bringing and her relationship with God because of you? She is in reality, you are the one in denial
2007-06-29 09:51:55 · answer #7 · answered by tebone0315 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋
You cant change someone else. But do you want to be apart of having a full life. A life that will make you satisfied.You will only find that life with Jesus Christ and I think your Girlfriend understands that. You can try and try to fill your life with girls,sports,entertainment,Drugs and anything you can think of but they will never give you the life you were meant to have.
2007-06-29 09:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by rockinweazel 4 · 6⤊ 4⤋
You can't. And its her choice. Freedom of religion.
2007-06-29 09:44:36 · answer #9 · answered by ~Heathen Princess~ 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's you that should be brought back to reality. Go to church with her and than you will have more things in common.
2007-06-29 09:43:59 · answer #10 · answered by MrStyle 2 · 5⤊ 6⤋