Ok I just got a girl that I really like but is it normal to for guys ( as to refering to myself) to actually just want to forget about all things in life like homework or sports just so they can hang out with their girlfriend I need to know before I go back to school. Me and her have a long distance realtionship and I just need to know if my future is being ruined or being fixed from a lot of mistakes I have made.
2007-06-29 02:04:47 · 11 answers · asked by Nich 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nick---you old romantic--- Long distance never works... Get a girl closer to home. I know she will have a guy closer to where she lives.
2007-06-29 02:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by Gerald 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a very nice feeling to really like someone but just because you like them a lot does not mean your world has to revolve around her. You know that's how relationships end quickly because the couple spend 24/7 with each other and hardly make time for other things. Yes it is normal to not want to do any of the things you did before but eventually you will learn to spend time apart. Good luck!!!
2007-06-29 09:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by Pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up your studies or activities for anyone! Not even a girlfriend. I know that you want to spend time with her, probably every waking moment. BUT you need to realize that if you smother her, (i.e. calling her all the time; texting, emailing, etc) you may push her away. Girls can change their minds and find someone who likes them more than you do, and then where will you be? Keep studying hard to get your education, hang out with your friends, do sports, etc. Give her time to miss you, miss talking to you. If the relationship is meant to be it will be.
2007-06-29 09:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! its definitely normal..... & its a great feeling to just be with the one u like so much.....
The trick is make time for everything thats important to you..... this way, you spend time with her as well as prepare your future....
Just remember, dropping everything for a girl is not very wise if you want to become a success & its definitely not worth it throwing your future away for......
you can have both with a lil' life management on your part...
good luck...!
c",)
2007-06-29 09:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Nuraan ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I once had a crush on this girl that I grew up with and she moved away and I ended up failing high school because I could only think about her!
2007-06-29 09:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Tintin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal. We have all been there. But do not give up your education,etc that would just be plain stupid. I hate to be that way, but women like guys who can man up and juggle them and their responsibilites. Women like men who handle their business. Always handle your business first!
2007-06-29 10:15:17 · answer #6 · answered by DineroMike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes i have forgotten h/w or i have put it off as late as possible but i still got it done. and not to scare you but i had a long distance relationship and i ended it we grew apart. but thats just me youll be fine.
2007-06-29 09:08:34 · answer #7 · answered by chris i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal. And about long distance relationships -- they don't work.
2007-06-29 09:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by William D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should let nohthing get in the way and go ahead in be with the girl u want u never no it it migth lead into love..............
2007-07-02 12:38:49 · answer #9 · answered by brenda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens but each case is different
2007-06-29 09:08:33 · answer #10 · answered by Greg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋