I am a wife but I need to know how to spank my 4 year old son when he is naughty . I want to do it myself cause my kid has no respect for me I don’t want to get my husband involved so I need to know steps how to spank him list them clearly plz like no 1 take off his clthes ( etc ) thx
2007-06-28 23:05:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
It's not rocket science. Just your open hand to his bottom. Not hard enough to bruise, but not to soft either. Also communicate to him as to why this is happening, and how to avoid them in the future
2007-06-28 23:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by olschoolmom 7 · 3⤊ 4⤋
im a mother of 2 and in the state of illinois spanking a child is agianst the law...use time outs like was said before....spanking just shows them to hit when someone is doing something the dont like...and never take their clothes off to spanks and if you do spank try not to and just take away items they like they wont like it and will drive you crazy till they get them back but dont give in they will get over when its all said and done
2007-07-02 16:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by jessica_62040 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would never remove a child's clothes to administer punishment. That would be too humiliating to the child. Also the spank should never leave marks as that could be counted as child abuse.
The idea is that it is a short sharp shock to make the child sit up and think. It should never be done in anger and only as a last resort on the back of the legs or the hands
2007-06-28 23:18:39 · answer #3 · answered by Donna A 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Are you getting a kick out of it, or something? Why would you need step by step instructions? That sounds wierd to me.
If you are genuine here, leave your kid alone. Spanking is unnecessary, and is the last resort of the person who has lost control and let their anger get the better of them.
2007-06-28 23:15:22 · answer #4 · answered by helly 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
This question is disgusting!
You do not need step by step instructions to spank, it's obvious (and it's wrong).
If you're not getting off on this, there may be sick people out there that are.
This sort of question should not be asked!
2007-06-28 23:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by LauraMarie 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Read "Dare to Discipline" by Dr. James Dobson.
2007-06-29 17:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by Carolle746 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Psychologists have long proven it traumatizes a child for life. Go to family counseling and have them help you discipline without spanking.
If you persist, you will be a child abuser!
2007-06-28 23:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋
SPANKING IS NOT THE ANSWER!! HE IS 4 YRS. OLD USE TIME OUT OR TAKE SOMETHING HE LIKES AND OUT IT IN TIMEOUT! LIKE HIS FAVORITE TOY ETC. DON'T LET HIM WATCH HIS FAVORITE T.V. SHOW OR SOMETHING. YOU HAVE TO BE CONSISTENT AND STAND BY WHAT YOU SAY THOUGH OR IT WILL NEVER WORK!! SPANKING ONLY TEACHES THEM TO HIT!!
2007-06-28 23:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by fairy crazy 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
its not dificult just use your hand on his bottom, i dont think it has to be done on the bare .
2007-06-28 23:28:53 · answer #9 · answered by hage 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋