Some say it does some say it dosen't u tell me.
2007-06-28 22:55:07 · 17 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It all depends really. My first time did hurt, but I truthfully believe it hurt because I was nervous. Not that I didn't want to do it, its just that many girls say it hurts their first time and with that in mind, your body's going to tense up, readying itself for the pain. I believe if you relax your body and maybe massage your clit while he's going inside you, it wouldn't hurt as much. That's what I do when my sweetheart and I make love. I find it so much easier(and more pleasuring) when I'm relaxed. I mean, you will feel your vagina stretch as it trys to accomidate the size of your lover, but like I said, try to relax and shouldn't hurt that much. Now if your hymen is still intact, there'll be pain even if you do relax yourself, I don't know how much pain though...but it shouldn't last that long. There might be bleeding and since its your first time, tell your lover to be gentle.
2007-06-28 23:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the hurt that is going to modify you...it's the pain and suffering from allowing yourself to be put in that position when life offers much more for those who are apprehensive to sexual intercourse especially at a young age.
You don't sin when you marry, but it's sin to have sex without marriage.
Fornicators must live with themselves after making such a decision like that which could affect your whole outlook on life.
Be careful what you step into, you might go too deep and can't get out.
Curiosity for sex amongst our teenagers today is at a overwhelming high rate and the chance of catching a disease is much higher too with or without condoms...the risk is too great to chance.
It's better to wait and get married then have sex safely with your spouse and remain monogamus.
2007-06-29 06:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
yeh it does a little not majorly though just make sure your relaxed cos if you tense the muscles in ur vagina will tighten and make it harder and probably more painful. as long as you comfortable there shouldnt be any need to be tense and you can always say stop if its too much for you.
2007-06-29 06:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hurts Slightly.
But ya get over that and clean up the blood and
then ya have lots more sex and enjoy it.
laters,
Ric.
2007-06-29 05:59:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
About the same as the first time you have to get out of bed to go to work...unless the guy doesn't know his job!
2007-06-29 05:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It didn't, not for me. I am a very active person and my doctor told me that active girls tend to tear that flesh (that brakes when you lose you V) while doing sport or strenuous exersize....
i guess it just depends on the girl
2007-06-29 06:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That completely depends on you personally. No one can tell you if it will or not.
2007-06-29 05:58:28 · answer #7 · answered by JacksonK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a bit. at first youll feel it kinda like...stretch i guess. idk how to describe it but after a while youll loosen up and its not so bad. the second or third time around starts feeling really good.
2007-06-29 05:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little, and you may bleed some too!
2007-06-29 05:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurt me
2007-06-29 05:57:56 · answer #10 · answered by Winter Blossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋