I've got an amazing boyfriend, hes more than i could ever wish for. However i think i've got feeling for one of his friends. We were all at a popular spot for teenagers in cars when it was empty and his friend was being very friendly, for example he knows i like speed so kept saying he'll take me out in his car and show me a good time, also i was trying on his work clothes and as i put the jacket on he zipped it up, i hugged him and said thanks purely as a friend then he kissed me, i stopped it then once my boyfriend dropped me off at home David came over and asked if i wanted to go out a drive i said yeah why not, we were going really fast and i enjoyed it, then we went to the popular teen spot and sat talking for a bit then he kissed me again, this time i didnt stop him.
I feel so awful yet i really want to know if he has feelings for me so i know what to do.
I love my boyfriend so much and never want to hurt him.
What should i do?
2007-06-28 22:06:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should have probably mentioned that my boyfriend cheated on me when we were together just 6 months.
Maybe this is Karma(What goes around comes around)
I dunno
2007-06-28 22:49:21 · update #1
it happened to me b4, I liked someone but he did not give me everything i wish for, so I found other things i like in other person, these two complete eachother, each of them has things that you like, even if this second guy likes speed maybe there are things in his personality you will not like but you like in your origional boyfriend. so best is to choose one, cause sooner or later ur origional boyfriend will find out then he will be real hurt. take your time and think, who you want to be with, then tell the other good bye. omg but there is a danger, both guys are friendS!!!! so becarful if you choose to stay with second one, first one might get very angry with his friend, then you will be stuck in the middle. it can get a bit dangerious. like that movie i saw the other day.... ask this second guy, why he wanted to kiss you even he knows you are other guy girlfriend. becareful with men, maybe 1st one is testing you, and he asked his friend to do that, to see if you are faithful or not. make a choice and fast!!! good luck
2007-06-28 22:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you had better stay out of a car that is being driven at high speeds! You are playing Russian Roulette!! My daughter's 1st love is now at 19 years old living in a rest home with brain damage. Think about this one, knowing whats going on around you but not being able to communicate or use his body properly!! He is stuck in a desolate place a BODY THAT DON"T WORK!!! Worry about your love life after you have given your life a couple of thoughts!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-29 05:18:13 · answer #2 · answered by Ruth M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your boyfriend, as you claim, you will stop going on 'drives' with his friend. I dont see the reason why you should be going out with his friend behind his back if you at least care for him. You will eventually lose both of them if you're not care ful. What you feel for the friend, or maybe for both is lust and not love. Be sure to differentiate between the two
2007-06-29 05:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To late, you've already hurt him. He just hasn't found out yet. But he will. You couldn't 'cheat' on this "amazing boyfriend that's more than you could ever wish for", with a total stranger(since you had to cheat on him) it had to be his "friend?" (some friend). Your don't need a steady boyfriend right now. You need to get your priorities in order.
2007-06-29 05:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by angels_angelsarehere 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look .. theres something in your bf that missing ... and thats why you let david kiss you ... am sure that you love your bf but still theres something hes not givin it to you ... and you found this thing in david ... look , you shouldnt care about what david wants , and if he loves you or not ... just care about your bf , and i suggest that you tell your bf about what happend and tell him that you feel aweful and bad ... or , you can lie to him a little ... so he doesnt get mad of you ... but , i think you should tell him at least that you went out with david ... and if you want my advice ... forget about david all ...
2007-06-29 05:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by loveisharmony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend about everything including the truth about your feelings.
If the two of them are friends they need to handle things between the two of them first.
After that which direction to go may be much more obvious!
2007-06-29 05:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by runninfool 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What goes around comes around, if you leave your boyfriend now, then your other boyfriend could do the same to you.
2007-06-29 05:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not love your boyfriend much. If you loved him you would never do something like that. it is embarrassing for your boyfriend. you cheated him with his friend. that's awful, you've right. be brave and leave him. if you don't love him, respect him at least.
2007-06-29 05:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by veceras 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really LOVE you BF you wouldnt have went back out for the ride
2007-06-29 05:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by curious6710 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the 'friend' if he has feelings for you, and would he want a relationship. If so then you should leave your BF. If not , then forget about him and try to make it work with your BF if you want too.
2007-06-29 05:09:57 · answer #10 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋