2007-06-28 21:55:18 · 39 answers · asked by Rachel x x x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its hormones, we can't help it.
2007-06-28 21:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
What "mem" want?, A common question from a lot of my lady friends. Well.. Let start from here..Men are seeking women who are feminine gentle and kind because deep down the qualities that make a woman a great mother are an attraction in themselves. I am not suggesting that the man himself needs mothering, though some do, it is more the point that men seek the attributes in women that point to someone who would make a great mother to future offspring.
Men want women with a great sense of humor. Women often come across as uptight or too bothered by too many small details. You will sometimes hear mention of a girl who is 'one of the boys'. What this means is that she is able to fit in with their humor and is sociable and fun to be with. Such women are extremely attractive to many men. Men want to have a good time and relax when not working and so their ideal partners are women who are able to do the same.
Hope you have find of the answer here..
2007-06-28 22:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by ric0ho 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
And of all the women they eye up and down, how many do they go home with? If your bf takes you to a jewelry store to buy you a 3/4 carat diamond ring, I'm pretty sure you take more than a glance at the 2 carat ring in the next case. Does that mean you don't like the 3/4 carat? I think not
2007-06-28 22:02:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult not to. Men are hard wired to be visually stimulated. That is why the main consumers of pornography are men. It explains the popularity of stripper bars.
It is one of the wonders of human nature. Women dress and make themselves up to look as attractive to men as they possibly can and then wonder why we look.
I always had a problem not looking a other women. I am proud to say that I have never cheated on my wife. I have never "touched" but I am guilty of "look". My wife has always told me I could look all I want as long as I don't touch.
I often would try to sit in restaurants in a seat that faces nothing so I would not be distracted by another woman when dining with my wife.
We do not mean to be disrespectful.
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2007-06-29 16:23:38 · answer #4 · answered by Jacob W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man ogles perversely at other gals then the gf is better off without him.
If he does it subtly once in a blue blue moon... then it's still tolerable. Cos who doesn't look at gorgeous man and women.... or beautiful things?
However... If his eyes revolve ard ANY and EVERY gals... then it's a grave mistake to make him ya bf.
A nice guy really into his gf would not do things which will hurt nor show obvious disrespects to his gf. A true gentleman would not behave in such a lewd and insensitive manner... whether is he with his gf or female friends.
2007-06-28 22:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by glitzynicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is in life a tolerable level in all things. If a man looks at every female within eye distance and is somehow mentally summing her up in a points mentality then this guy is a sado. If he simply looks because she is smart, attractive, has big boobs and it is now and then and not an ogle then this is normal I think. We all can do this, our eye caught by somethig pleasant to look at be it a scene, a car, a member of the opposite sex. It is the one who we go home with that matters and the one we cherish that matters be our gender male or female. It is not a male perogative to appreciate nice things.
2007-06-28 22:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the same reason that we eye up men, dogs, furniture, home electronics and train wrecks in front of our girlfriends. Each of those things holds some visual interest that attracts our attention. We look, we pass by, and we forget, prefering to focus our real attention on the things (and people) that truly matter to us. Why do you ask?
2007-06-28 22:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by actor22 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i knew that then i'd find a cure and stop getting punched in the arm by my missus!!!. ( well, probably not) - It's just one of those things - I think eye up is too strong for most, if an attractive woman walks past then you automatically look as she has lit something in your brain! -
2007-06-28 21:58:32 · answer #8 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cos they have 2 heads & they most always think with the wrong 1. It is in ther nature...no matter how they feel about the 1 they r with.
2007-06-29 19:39:18 · answer #9 · answered by suicidalanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its human nature and its not only true for guys. If you were in a car and you saw a ferrari pass by would you see it or not!? well.. i am not saying that other women are ferraris but hey what the heck! Atleast we are not staring at other guys .. if that happens that should worry you more!
2007-06-28 21:59:06 · answer #10 · answered by All Aces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of them dont, but if they do to get some sort of reaction to make sure the girlfriend cares! which is a big deal!
2007-06-28 21:58:46 · answer #11 · answered by Dennis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋