i'm really down, please help!!:-(?

Question

my boyfriend and i are having problems at some point i even got the feeling he wanted to break up with me i then asked him and he said no but then recently we got to that subject and again i asked him if he loved me enaf to keep me in his life and he said he loves me enaf to die with me, i then asked him why is it that i get this idea that he doesn't work things out between us. cos thing is we in a distance relationship so the distance is getting the best of us and thing is i do not wanna loose him please somebody help how does one sort this one out?? is there hope? He tells me he loves and he doesn't wanna loose me, what do you make of this?

Answer 1

HEY..long distc.. are alwys hard..surley luv trust and loadzzzz of understandin is needed..jst dont let it go so easily ..he mite be busy or distracted or sumtin mite b botherin him..so let things pass ..giv space..n let time go ...c wat hapens

Answer 2

Well, I'd think ur the one getting urslf to feel down- like u said the long distance is getting the best you, its only normal long distant relationship do take some strain at some point bt judging from ur boyfriends' answers, he dont wanna lose you too... i mean why wud he want to mislead you like dat when he can jst end it cos the chances of u bumping in2 each other in future are probably 2% and he cud still avoid dat 2%. I say sort out ur insecurities and stop depressing urslf over nothing, ur jumping in2 conclusions.

Answer 3

The most important thing is to talk about your problems and be willing to compromise. Set aside some time to really discuss these issues honestly and really strain to find some point of accommodation, this is the best way to find hope. A long distance relationship is a very difficult thing to maintain for any length of time, and you should desperately try and find a way to get together. Until then, make the time you have together more meaningful and beneficial.

Answer 4

Long distance relationships are very hard. The upside is that if you make it through this portion of your dating, you will have built a lot of trust in each other. I would say stick with it unless you have a good reason not to.

Answer 5

you didnt really explain the nature of your long distance relationship

have you met him? how long have you known him?

maybe you're in love with the mind of the person communicating with you but you dont know the person really well

the distance is getting the better of you i reckon, you need to organise something like a get together and work things out face to face, talk with friends as well, and your parents- they know you in ways you never knew they knew u!

Answer 6

Firstly, there is a big difference to loving someone enough to die for them. I love a few girls enough to die for them, but they are just good friends of mine.
There is only one who I love enough to live with.
I don't know if you can understand this but what I'm trying to say is maybe you were just not meant to be together as more than friends.
Your relationship is already over as bf and gf, try to save it as friends.

Answer 7

Insecurity. Long distance relationships are very difficult at best. They very seldom last. It will take plenty of hard work and determination to make it work!!

Answer 8

he says he loves u and would die 4 u, he could just b sayin that and he could b tellin the truth, u jst need to hear the truth n his voice, if its not there, u've got a problem

Answer 9

well why dont u try listening tohim, he says he love u...then he loves u. Guys are not like girls, when they say something they mean it! its not like, no means yes ....u know. And stop asking him if he loves u, guys will get annoyed at that. Have more self confidence and he will find that sexy!

Answer 10

simple answer doesn't even deserve correct punctuation, one of you will move, there that was it.