i love my friends to death but sometimes they like to drink..
when we hang out, sometimes they go buy drinks and xpect all of us to drink too
i personally dont like the idea alot but..i dont want to be a total party pooper...so somtimes i go ahead and drink
any opinions are totally welcome!!!
2007-06-28 20:48:16 · 27 answers · asked by jane doe 3 in Food & Drink ➔ Other - Food & Drink
Lets play a game.....
What if....?
Thats the game. It goes like this... Take a situation.. drinking, underage... and start the game... Ill get it going for you.
What if.... your mom finds out?
What if.... you get so drunk you forget how to say No?
What if.... you drink so much that your blood alcohol puts you into a coma? ... die?
What if.... one day your life depends on your reaction and because you have been drinking that split second you needed is gone.. and you die?
What if.... your friends start to do cocaine instead of alcohol?
and the big one
What if.... when you are called before your maker and he askes why did you do something so blatently stupid... will your friends be there to say they talked you into it?
2007-06-28 21:03:16 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Tiger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT a party pooper if you don't drink! Trust me! Even if you are the only one not drinking - that just proofs that you have a strong personality and that you know what you want (or don't want).
Teens love experimenting which is good. You learn lessons for life. But never do anything you don't wanna do just because others expect that from you.
Be strong and do what you think is best for you!
2007-06-28 20:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ lovely ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're hanging out with the wrong friends; when you know they are gonna be drinking, don't hang out with them. 13 - 15 yrs. old is way too young to be drinking. The kind of habits, etc., that you develop now will stay with you for a life time and could get much, much worse unless you put a stop to them. Don't give in to peer pressure, get new friends, hon. I really hope you will do everything you can to avoid this direction you have taken.
2007-06-28 22:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI
it's really bad to drink at a very young age.they are not trying to be cool,i think they are inferior.they might be in some distress at home so they opt this for forgetting all that happened.If today u are a social drinker,their will be a time when u can't live without it.comeon it's an addiction.and we all know it is bad for health.then also their are who just don't have any control of themselves.coming to you,don't get me wrong,i am helping u just stay away from them.this is not the end of life,u can get other freinds also,and if u find this that u can't live without them,then just go,talk&have fun but when they try to head towards any pub then u should make urself towards ur home.and also talk to ur parents.
2007-06-28 21:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i'm like you. i don't like to drink, so you know what i do? either i don't hang out with them or i make it clear that i will not drink whether they try to force me or not--first time drinking i just taste a bit of everything and drink a little. then after that i just say "i don't like the taste." and there's a reason to back it up already: not that i didn't try, you see? i tried, and i don't like it. so i won't drink :) try it on your friends--they'll respect you for having a backbone even though they may not show it. they'll truthfully leave you alone after awhile--that means they respect your stance and won't force you :D
and i think 13-15 yr olds shouldn't drink so much nor often. they don't know what fun they're missing out. drinking, i feel, is for losers. people drink to drown in sorrows, to celebrate, or to feel high. but after that? it's just money down the drain and a hangover. it's really not worth it :) but you asked for ANY opinions, and i've given you mine. hope you have the courage to take your stand and be unmoved no matter what. all the best!!! :)
2007-06-28 22:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is from two sides...me being your age at one time so I am putting myself in your shoes and the other being a mom (I am 33 now)...
Your side...I hear you but drinking every friday night w/ my friends gave me ulcers by the time I was 15 and accomplished nothing...we would get our hands on anything and I ended up puking every night just to "fit in"...I was soooo STUPID so from that point of view if I could go back---I would have a diff. set of friends and probably not drink until it was legal for me to
From my "mom" side--- NO! If you get arrested the repercussions are endless...too much trouble to mess with...just don't do it...you've done it...are you really missing out on anything special? U know that answer so stop!
2007-06-28 21:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by M R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a 13-15 year old drinking is a total no-no.if u dont wanna be a tee-totaller and be out of your frnds group try and change them.search the internet and print some pictures of liver cirrhosis and show them what the effects of drinking can be.show them that your liver gets totally ruined and its not kool to drink.show them some really disturbing pictures of damaged livers.they might just change.dont drink.!have fun...
2007-06-28 20:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by thechamp7196 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering you will probably continue to grow for the next 7 years...yes there is a good chance. 128lbs is really skinny for 13 years old, you should really start eating right. 5lbs weights 100 times? Start learning how to work out as you change to a healthier diet.
2016-05-22 03:41:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT IS A BAD IDEA it affects your liver and your brain do not do it it can effect behavor and outher things dont do it plz it can hert you and possibly caus some sierous damage like achole poisining so if your want to be stupid go right a head but just taker this as personal advise
2007-06-28 20:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by riley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drinking=bad! Independent of age! Better be a party Popper, but don't drink! Search for other friends! Good luck!
2007-06-28 20:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋