ok everyone, well i just got off the phone with my girlfriend and she just admitted she just cheated on me, i feel like killing someone right now, someone tell me what to do
2007-06-28 19:28:20 · 11 answers · asked by jack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just want to say thank you so much to everyone, all your advice was amazing, thank you so much, does anyone have any ideas on how i can forget about her because i know the person i am and i wont be able to
2007-06-28 19:55:01 · update #1
If she just admitted to it just dump her, Why still go out with someone who cheated on you once and throughout the rest of the relationship you will have this thought in your head of is she gonna do it again or not. You deserve somebody better who will treat you right and faithful. It is VERY EASY TO CONTROL YOURSELF FROM CHEATING, I can't stand people who try to blame others or things for why the cheating occurred. thats BS, but thats only my opinion. i'm sorry that happened to you but seriously You do deserve to be treated better.
2007-06-28 19:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... this is some kinda tough. that really hurts a lot. but you have to thank her for telling the truth. At least, you know what she did to you. Can you forgive her? If not... better not to continue the relationship or else, doubt would always be there.And the realtionship would'nt be the same anymore... But if you are willing to forgive and still love her, then give her a chance. Give yourself a time to think...
2007-06-29 02:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by RevLOR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about killing anyone talk it over try to figure out what the problem was! try everything over again if it still continues leave her your heart is not worth it trust me i have been there alot and it's hard but don't break down be strong!
2007-06-29 02:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by jocelyn p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts but time heals. The memory will haunt you for years to come so leave and start over but do not hold this against the next girlfriend every ones not a cheater!!!!!
2007-06-29 02:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by Canuck1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude. u can tell she feels horrible bc she had so much guilt and she had to tell u. but dnt take her bak...find a new girl. listen...it's ok. it happens sometimes. so she wasn't the girl...just chill. u'll get ovr her. u'll find someone better that dsnt need special attention from two guys at a time. that *****. anyway. just stop thinking about her. life goes on... u'll be ok.
2007-06-29 02:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by shorty babee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you truly care for her, she has demonstrated what you mean to her. Is that the kind of girlfriend you want in life? I would personally prefer to have a girlfriend who really & truly cares for me & that I can trust, even if I was not in love with her, instead of a a girl I love but can't trust.
Now YOU decide what kind of girl you want in your life.
2007-06-29 02:42:51 · answer #6 · answered by XPig 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first take a deep breathe... relax... it aint the end of the world.. u dint do anything.. she did it.. and u killing someone wont change anything... dump her and move on with life {}
2007-06-29 02:31:21 · answer #7 · answered by who ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time when girls try to get you in relationship by talking sweet things.. don't trust them.. and NEVER EVER marry if at all without a prenup
2007-06-29 02:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by Is it ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find a girl that isnt like that not worth jail time be glad you know this. it will happen again . my opion?
2007-06-29 02:32:42 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it . 95% of all relationships someone cheats.
2007-06-29 02:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋