ive been with my bf for 5yrs. We are both in college and trying to figure things out. he is at a four year college about five hours aways from me.Lately my bf has had doubts about our relationship and has been sayin he feels like he might be missing out on the things his frat brothers and roomates do. I have been home at community college and i feel trapped in this little town.seems like i havnt accomplished anything, i feel like im waisting time andim missing out on life. for the past two years ive been going back and forth about going into the airforce but ive been puttin it off because of him. I dont want to regret leaving a good relationship and what we could be but i also i could have and what i can gain by joinin the airforce.. my bf has two more years left of school and i feel i should stick around for our relationship but i at the same time i am scared of being srewd over if i stay. how do you know what to sacrafice
2007-06-28 19:16:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't revolve your life around anyone who has doubts...especially after 5 years. Even IF the guy would come around, sounds like 3-5 nights out of the week, he would have his football/sports friends over puking on your couch, eating your food, etc.
Your BF is just not there, just not committed. Move on to a real man, who is responsible for more than his friends. His other half should and must be # 1.
Good Luck.
; )
2007-06-28 19:22:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the airforce. If you and the bf are meant to be you will find each other again. He sounds just as unsure as you are. Don't give up on a dream for a relationship- the relationship should support the dreams of both partners, not stop them.
And be grateful for the good memories! Don't turn bitter because it may not have worked out, take the good with you into the future and let it make you a better person for the next time.
2007-06-29 02:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetlatina, it's not a sacrifice that has you tugging in the middle. It's a trade-off, and it seems to me that 5 years with the same guy is plenty enough and the tell-tell signs are there as you both are more than eager to leap outside yourselves and see what the world has to offer you. And savor the 5 beautiful years you experienced with the same guy and use that as the ideal template for the next man that comes into sweetlatinas life. Just don't let fear dictate your potential because then you'll never find out who you really are and all the wonderful things you can see or become.
2007-06-29 02:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mr.Cool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you definitely shouldn't sacrifice your life and your career. You should consider kicking your "bf" to the curb, so that he will have the freedom to do like his frat brothers and roommates. I'm sure you will find some1 better for you.
2007-06-29 02:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by Skyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely and without one doubt join the Air Force! You are only young once! If you two are really meant for each other, he'll be waiting for you when you get out.
2007-06-29 02:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have usually gone by a rule that states if you don't know its no. In other words if you have to ask the question should I stay or go its go!. Because if its stay you would know. If your not sure if they are cheating on you they usually are.
2007-06-29 02:21:53 · answer #6 · answered by David T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋