I'm 17 and the girl I like is 17. I don't know what to do? Today I went to the fair. She would sit next to me and do the feely game. Then I went to get something and I look back and shes in the corner kissing one of my friends. Then after the fair we all went to my house and she would pay attention to my every move. Then later that night I get a text saying she would rather have me than him because she tried him out but she didn't like him and that she really didn't want to kiss him. Will you please help me out?
2007-06-28 19:13:45 · 10 answers · asked by Ronnie F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think she could have kissed him just to make u feel jealous, n i mean if she watched ur everymove its clear that she likes somthing about u, cuz theres no way a girl would watch u like that for no reason.
i guess the fact that she kissed the other guy is kinda bad, but hey, technically u n her rnt together so it wasnt really like she was cheating on u or anything.
n the fact that she tried the other guy n still wanted u should mean somthing to u.
i think u should just give it a try cuz u like her, n its clear she likes u, what have u got to lose? just have some fun n see what happens, lol.
2007-06-28 19:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by JuLiA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, well this girl is just using u. Trust me she was probably kissing ur friend for attention and if she liked him then she would most likely go out with him and dump u. Its called GIRL POWER!!!!! So she probably is two timing u right this very second, so if i were u then i would break up. I know u love her but how do u know she feels the same about u? To tell u the truth if u don't break up with her then she will break up with u before u!!! Then u will really regret life. If u really don't want to split, then try talking to her, face to face. Show her who's boss and if she just wont listen to u then u do what u have to do!!!!! Good luck I hope i HELPED!!!!
2007-06-28 19:25:32 · answer #2 · answered by Dania S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about this girl, you need to make it clear that what she did to you was disrespectful, and that you will not tolerate her humiliating you again. Tell her that if she is not ready for a relationship, that is fine. If she is going to date you, she must know that, at least for that day or night, she is your date, and should not be intimate with other guys.
If you don't demand respect, she will continue to use you, treat you with disrespect, and humiliate you. It is time to stand up for your right to be treated with respect.
Just ask her how she would have felt, had you pulled that on her.
2007-06-28 19:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me she sounds like a tease and a flirt, and no offince but one of thoes girls who can cheat on a boyfriend and or use them. U sound cool, but she doesnt sound liek the one for you. I say: sit her down and talk to her. Ask her honist questions like: "have you ever cheated on a boy befor?" and "why dont you like him?" one you get the answer and you think shes telling the truth i say go for her, but make sure your friend doesnt like her first, cuase that could cause problems between you and your friend and honistly things like that sucks. exspeacaly over a girl. But yeah. Just ask her and make sure he doesnt and you should be set to go. Good luck ;-)
2007-06-28 19:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by ][Eric][ AKA Just a question][ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get with her. She's a player. If she kissed your friend, "Tried him out" then she'll try you out also. And if you get with her. It would place you and your friend in a bad situation. Because after that kiss, your friend would probably want to get with her.
2007-06-28 19:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by namehurr22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i had to help one of my friends with this problem... First off, is the guy she kissed someone you know or one of your friends? If he is then you might wanna be careful, he might say you "stole" her from him.. but if not who cares? She like YOU not HIM, and he will move on.. Go for it babii and see how it turns out... good luck!!
Ciao xxxx
2007-06-28 19:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you should smoke an entire pack of lucky strikes.... then pick up a guitar and write the most brutal heartfelt tale of how love can screw you over then, find out where she lives.... show up at her house at 2:30 in the morning and play the song at the top of your lungs to her window..... she will fall into your arms.
2007-06-28 19:19:38 · answer #7 · answered by tigittytigitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away. I smell a tramp. Keep your feelings out of it and just have fun. Play right along with her cause she wants you and everybody else.
2007-06-28 19:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by Nicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you ... whats the problem? Kiss her!
2007-06-28 19:16:55 · answer #9 · answered by twid392™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do gently, only what. Ever your heart says.
2007-06-28 19:43:08 · answer #10 · answered by Shahbaz A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋