i've been foolin' around with my best friend. he's really nice, and he's been there for me since we met 2 years ago. on tuesday things got heated up when my friend was ignoring us, the whole day he was hitting on me, and stuff you know what i mean? and we ended up making out, i saw him today too. we went a lil' further. i always move too fast and the last time i did stuff like this with out being drunk or high, was 1 year ago. WHAT DO I DO?! i'm scared again. and i dont know what to do. if we go out i'm afraid that i'll loose him, if we stay like this, well i'll want him too much. help me PLEASE!
ps. 2 years ago, i was datin' his best friend when he cheated on me. ( my boyfriend) and when we broke up 3 months later, my best friend was teasing and tauntin' me. i love him a lot, but i dont want to loose him. what can allow us to stay friends?
2007-06-28 19:06:32 · 5 answers · asked by Jenny B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't do anything you're not comfortable doing. If he's not a sleezball you can tell him to cut it out and he'll still like you
2007-06-28 19:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by ShakeDatLaffyTaffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way too late to go back to being "just friends". Just take it slow and make sure you don't ruin it. At this point you need to explore this new dynamic to your relationship. If you try to back off now, you'll likely both end up hurt and wondering what could have been.
I'm not saying you should run off next weekend and get a hotel room or anything. But acknowledge what's happened, and see where it goes.
2007-06-29 02:17:46 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you'll just have to go with the flow and let yourselves fall. You cant go on just being friends when there's too much sexual tension in the air, it will get too uncomfortable. Best friends make the best relationships anyway. If it dosent work out, then hopefully you can go back to being friends with that knowledge.
2007-06-29 02:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by Logic Lost And Found 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First be clear with yourself with what you want, and then you can be clear with him and let him know. Don't feel pressured into backing down from what you want, be strong and say no if he wants anything more = )
2007-06-29 02:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by crewbrotha86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing that i can say is follow ur heart
2007-06-29 02:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋