I need boyfriend help like NOW?

Question

Well my best friend, is like in love with my ex boyfriend. He is really hot & all but we went out like as relle good friends & not like we were boyfriend & girlfriend. Well anyway, I still have feelings for this guy & if he were to ask her out, i would rip my hair out! & I just can't get over this. I would probably feel uncomfortable & maybe even jealous too. I would feel happy for my best friend but I just would feel like they should break up. And idk how to get over him! or at least deal with it! So help me!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Do you want your boyfriend back or do you just not want your best friend to have him??

Obviously, if you still have feelings for this guy then you should be real with him and tell him how you feel. Also, your best friend should already know the deal "you dont date your friend's ex" you just dont. I think you should also tell her how you feel and if she was really your BFF then she should understand and fall back. Hope this helps sweetie.

Answer 2

Well, you have to decide. Do you want him back? Or do you want to move on with your life?

What's the real issue here? Is it that you still have feelings for this guy? Or is it really that you don't want your friend to succeed with this guy? Would that make you think it was your fault it didn't work out for you?

Answer 3

Make sure you tell your friend that you still have feelings for that guy, and that it would be extremely uncomfortable to see them together. If your friend still goes for him, you will have to find a new friend.

Answer 4

I would tell him how you feel BEFORE he asks her out. But don't do it under your best friend's acknowledgment. Is t hat a word..? el oh el. anyways.. If he still rejects, ask him if y'all can be good friends, even if they were to go out. If he says yes.. then that's how it was meant to be^_^ you'll find someone else.

Answer 5

find you a rebound, it works great, but dont let the rebound fall for you unless u really like them.