I want to ask this girl out to a date in a month or two and I am trying my hardest to find out what to do to get her to like me and do good on the date. I know her best friends and they are my friends. I flirt with her but I don't know if she likes me. I am trying to get help from girls on here because they know what they like but if a boy is experienced they can help to. I need tips on getting her to like me, asking her out, and doing good and getting her to like me more to go on another date. Any help please? God Bless all of you and thank you.
2007-06-28 18:51:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some pretty good advice already here.....
Be yourself, if you try to act differently than you are naturally, she isn't going to like you, she will like the guy who acts like you tried to act. You can't keep that up forever. If she doesn't like you as you are, there are other fish in the sea.
You need to like yourself so sit down and take stock of yourself. Make a list of the things that you like about yourself. Keep going over those points that you like about yourself. It will help your confidence, this will make you more desirable. Do not become too cocky though.
Do not dwell on or even talk about aspects of yourself that you don't like.
Keep a positive mental attitude about yourself and you'll be fine!
Go ahead and ask her out, the worst thing that could happen is she says no and the best thing that could happen is she says yes. All you have to do is put yourself out there.
Good Luck!
2007-06-28 19:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by tipp10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first it depends on what type of girl she is if shes conservative then buy her flowers with a romantic card after you think she likes you if your unsure then dont lay on the lnes to heavy u know wat i mean if you flirt all the time with her youll look like a moron but if you be yourself and occasionaly through in an original not corny sensitive low key type of line that i cant give you ideas for because it has to fit ur personality then you have a better shot and ne ways if she likes the real u instead of the flirty u then you will both be happy and you will last. if it doesnt work out there are other fish in the sea and assuming ur younger then u have plenty of time or who knows u might get lucky like i did and go out with one girl for 2 years im currently 15 16 the week after next but the most important thing to remember is to not try and prove yourself to her because it will end awkwardly be urself and be relaxed and if u mess up or say sumthin stupid try and think on the spot of a way to laugh at urself without looking like an idiot if u need anymore advice email me
2007-06-28 19:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by Logan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best way to impress on a first date is to make your date comfortable. The way to do that is to be yourself, be friendly, polite, converse freely, share laughter, be honest, and also don't be overly aggressive. Women like nothing more than for guys to be themselves, to be engaged in everyday and non-controversial type conversations. Keep everything light-hearted so your date will feel as though there is less tension and more freedom to be expressive. Show good manners, keep it friendly, and always have a ready smile on your face. You'll do fine. Be yourself.
2007-06-28 18:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to think about it, just have fun...mess around, give funny comments...dont worry so much about showing your affection towards her yet, right now just show her she can have a lot of fun when she's with u. i dont really have any good tips on how to ask her out, exept the good old way of just asking her out lol but if you two become a couple keep ur funny side, but now also tell her shes beautiful every now and then, give her some compliments about the way she's dressed, her eyes, etc. but for now, just try to be a fun guy to hang out with.
2007-06-28 19:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by metal_crazy_15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are friends with her friends, ask them what she likes. get to know her more. start talking to her online or on the phone. its much more easier to go on a date with someone you talk to on a regular basis. i was on a date last night. luckily, she loves the die hard movies, so we obviously went to see the new one. she had a great time. so, ask her what she likes to do for fun, think of something creative and memorable. be funny, but not offensive, be sweet and charming, but not overwhelming and clingy. number one thing to do. BE YOURSELF. do not change anything you do for her. if she likes you, you have to let her like you for who you are!!!!
2007-06-28 18:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by helpful and helpless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey just relax A little and go and ask her (in Private) I mean if you never ask her now then U might never get the chance to and she might never know how U real feel and mean I think it is better to get it off you back! I mean she might fell the same way ! so go ask her!!!
2007-06-28 19:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by ♫♥♫Edward Cullen♫♥♫OTD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first hint: Drop the "bigmanoncampus" thing.
Second: act natural. Don't force the issue and be yourself. If she likes you, then she likes you. If not, any acting or stunts you pull will just make her like you even less.
2007-06-28 18:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok man just be you ok? ask her when you want don't put a date on it! lol listen man if you are confident and yourself it will pay off
2007-06-28 18:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by hellacool_bomb2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should say wats on ur mine
ps tell she beautiful not hot an dby her fowers or chocalte
2007-06-28 18:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by hii there 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have good manners and respect her
smile a lot and make eye contact
2007-06-28 18:55:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋