I met a guy last Saturday night where we hit it off quite well. He called on Monday and said he would like to get together again this coming Saturday. I thought I would have heard from him again by now, with it being Thursday night. Maybe I'm expecting too much too soon. When first dating, on average, how often will a guy be calling before he sees you again? Before we met, we chatted almost every night, does this mean he's not all that interested? Should I just call him Friday or do I just wait to see if he calls? I don't want to seem too needy or desperate or too pushy, but I just want to know what's up for Saturday. What should I do? And if a guy wouldn't be interested in seeing you again, why would he make the initiative and call asking you out on a second date? Did he maybe change his mind, or playing games? I'm confused- any help would help.
2007-06-28 18:48:15 · 8 answers · asked by kelly825782003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's probably nervous about calling you, because he might not want to seem too eager. I don't think he's changed his mind, that's very unlikely. Just wait a bit longer, and I'm sure he'll call. If not, maybe you could text him if you have his number, just to remind him! Good luck.
2007-06-28 18:55:24 · answer #1 · answered by Corrida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and ask him if he still going out with you on Saturday. Or just txt him and say hello and ask him how he is doing,, don't mention any date. See what how he answers. He will bring up the date if he is still interested. Otherwise, he may have changed his mind but if he is man enough or just plain has a little common courtesy, then he will let you know if he wants to take you out again or not. If he does not make that date, then give him space and let him come back to you and they you decide if you should continue the relationship or not. He needs to be clear with you and not have you guessing. Otherwise he may think that you will be waiting for him regardless of what he does. Hold on to your dignity and self respect.
2007-07-06 18:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by jorge e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like he was interested in having another date because if not then he wouldnt have called to see if you wanted to go out on another. But it is Thursday and he still hasn't called back yet. I think that he could be busy, maybe caught up in work or he might be interested in another girl.
When this happends to me, I usually call the guy back to see weather we are or are not going to go on another date. He will usually let you know where he stands. If not then he has changed his mind.
2007-06-28 18:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably worried he will sound pathetic or desperate. he will most likely call you on saturday, being the night of the date.
2007-06-28 18:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by warmonger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why wait for him to call, if you have his # call to confirm in order for you make other plans, never wait to possibly be stoodup and also to ruin your weekend to be able to meet other people. time is way to precious to waist always live
each day as if it was your last. if you sit around you might be missing your chance to actually meet that mister right.
2007-06-28 18:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wants to wait until the last minute to call.don't call him if he wants you he knows where to find you.
2007-06-28 18:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him an email or text saying. just saying hi call me
2007-06-28 18:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by Lexis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't call by Wednesday I would be busy when he did call
2007-07-06 13:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋