My boyfriend's making me fat- what to do??

Question

So my boyfriend goes to bed really early and never wants to hang out at night. He lives with his parents and I'm living in my own apartment. When I get off work at night, I start to really miss him and I get lonely and so I always eat when I'm stressed. So like today I've eaten almost a pound of sees candy!! What should I do when I miss him?? I can't call him because he's at his parents' house and everyone is asleep. He doesn't have a cell phone. Its killing me!

Answer 1

you know what? first of all, look for something else to replace the candy. how abt something lower in calorie like slices of apple or carrots?
more importantly i think you should be frank and tell your boyfriend that you really do miss him and would like to call him or hang out and stuff. who knows, you could get him a call phone or something? i'm sure it will work out. best of luck!

Answer 2

you are making yourself fat, so don't blame him. If you are stressed try to eat fruit rather than candy, or better still, deal with the stress.

If you boyfriend never wants to see you at night, is he really your boyfriend anyway??? Most guys would be happy to see the girl at night and stay over, at least occasionally.

You need to have a life independent of him. Call some friends instead if you are lonely. or get a more understanding b/f.

Answer 3

You're the one making yourself fat.

How does missing someone stress you out??? One thing has nothing to do with the other. He's at momma's and DOESN'T have a cell phone? What does his parents going to sleep early have to do with him? Does he have a curfew? How old is he?

If he's an adult, dump the looser. If he's a kid, you should be arrested.

Answer 4

First, stop blaming your boyfriend for your eating.

If you miss him, don't eat. Do something instead. Go for a walk, jump on the exercise bike, masturbate. If you really have to, try to get him to call you a couple of times a week. If you really have to eat, always insist to yourself that you have to cook something first. This will be healthier than a bag of candy. Also, if you have to cook it first, you might just skip it and go to sleep.

Good luck.

Answer 5

Unless he's sitting on you and forcing that chocolate down your throat HE'S not making you fat-take responsibility for yourself!
Instead of sitting around feeling sorry for yourself and stuffing your face, find something more productive to do. Work out, read a book, take up a hobby. It's a bad idea to make the man in your life all you have for a life.

Answer 6

You don't need to be phoning your bf anyway, hon. You're not a "clinging vine" are you?! You need to grow up, sweetie. Don't you have a gf that you can call..... ? Do you like pumpkin seeds? You won't gain weight eating those. Diet candy is pretty good and has little or no calories.

Answer 7

Sorry, your boyfriend's not making you fat- it's you. Just don't eat a pound of chocolate. Have a little self-control. Maybe you should just go to bed earlier also.

Answer 8

work out when ya think of it dont stress it , buy a ball only 8 bucks.. hop around on it for a while you'll lose the weight and even more if ur that tressed.. eat raisens instead or something.. dont let that stress u out.. go out, dont wait for nothing and make more plans with him

Answer 9

Ur bf didn't make u fat... just didn't call u and stay beside with u!
u just scared tat he didn't stay beside of u!
and don't ever call Ur boys it's not good
the boy must call u not u call him
and u can buy the cell phone as a birthday present for him what
doesn't matter of it! don't u mind it?

good luck!

Answer 10

Exercise instead of eat! Or come up with another activity to burn those calories up...I am sure you boyfriend could help you with some ideas!