How come guys never want to grow up and get married and girls do?

Question

I'm not just talking about marraige. My man doesn't even want to finish college and get a real job. Or even move out of his parents house. So its not just the marraige thing. And I know a lot of guys like this.

Answer 1

they do, they just don't want to admit it to anyone.

Answer 2

BECAUSE MARRIAGE LAWS ARE WRITTEN TO PROTECT THE WOMAN IN THE 50% CHANCE THAT THE MARRIAGE FAILS.

Would YOU invest ALL OF YOUR MONEY in a stock that YOU KNEW had a 50% chance of CRASHING????

Well . . . LOL . . . if you wouldn't do that with YOUR MONEY, you can NEVER blame a man for not wanting to do that with his LIFE.

Right??

The fact that you suggest that attitude is not "GROWN UP" suggests how immature you really are.

Men would LOVE to get married if it meant a positive outcome IF HE COULD CONTROL IT FULLY.

But he CANT.

Men COMMIT to ALL OTHER aspects of their lives without ANY reservation or "fear" whatsoever. Jobs, promotion, car, mortgage, loans, building credit, LIFE GOALS, fixing things the need to get DONE, bills, business ventures, who he hangs with, and how he will spend his TIME etc. . . . . These are ALL things that are 100% within his control, and if he succeeds or fails he can take FULL responsibility.

Where the "FEAR" comes from,
is committing to "THE WRONG WOMAN".

And since a man only has 50% say in whether or not the marriage succeeds, you will understand why they dont JUMP AT THE OPPORTUNITY.

I think YOU should "grow up" and stop watching too many Disney cartoons which pumped it into your head that every man is expected to come along and promise all you little girls YOUR imaginary "happy ending".

Because GROWN UPS know -->> HAPPY ENDINGS ARE ALL STORIES THAT HAVENT FINISHED YET.

Funny that you think not wanting to marry "GIRLS" is not "grown up" . . . when everything I have said is perfectly ADULT and undeniably SANE.

. . . and you CLEARLY have ALOT to learn.

So -->> The next time you are sitting around with your "girlfriends" and the subject comes up about how "guys never want to grow up and get married" . . . . YOU are NOW the one who can SPEAK UP and say you know better, because of what you just learned.

Cheers.

:)

Answer 3

Well i do want to grow up and get married. I'm fifteen but i'm looking forward to meeting someone who i want to spend the rest of my life with. So here is one guy you can add to the "want to grow up and get married list"

Answer 4

And what makes you think that? I mean, I'm not REALLY into getting married but I'll consider it.

Answer 5

naaaw...Cuz after the divorce, its always gonna be a win/win situation for the woman. Nothing wrong with the way you think though....I think its cute ;)