his ex girlfriend is going to have a baby in a few months and its his. they still hang out and stuff. we've only been going out since tuesday and i was just wondering if i should be worried about him maybe cheating on me. i have big trust issues.
2007-06-28 17:27:07 · 15 answers · asked by 2am Lovesick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i forgot to add that she wants to give it up for adoption and me and him have been best friends for 2 years. and he knows i already have trust issues because past boyfriends have cheated.
2007-06-28 17:48:06 · update #1
From personal experience, there is an extreme chance that he may either leave you once he actually sees his child or he may play the field with his ex because some men think once a woman have a child with him, that it is his right to still have a sexual relationship with the mother of his child. I am not saying this will happen in your case, but it is an very extreme possibility that either two of those things will occur. I am a person who try to share my opinions as honest as possible to help others to avoid make some of the mistakes that I have. You should break up with him for now and go back to him only if after he has his child, that he still wants a relationship with you.
2007-06-28 17:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been going out since Tuesday and you already have trust issues? I think you need to wait for a boyfriend. He is getting ready to become a father, right now he doesn't need a new girlfriend with trust issues to worry about.
2007-06-29 00:30:54 · answer #2 · answered by da bomb 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your guy is going to be forever involved with this girl. FOREVER. They have a kid together. I dont know if anything is going on, but are you going to be able to trust him at this point in your life? It sounds like your about to get yourself neck deep in heartach, and this situation is not going to help your trust issues. Its only going to make you second guess everything. Find a guy who's not going to be a daddy in the next few months and work on those trust issues with someone who stands a chance in your eyes.
2007-06-29 00:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be very worried. People have a way of getting back together "for the childs sake". Sometimes this can work w/o feelings resurfacing but other times, well you know. It doesn't seem like you have a solid foundation with him since you've just met him. Cut your losses and move on to someone who doesn't have all that baggage.
2007-06-29 00:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by maximumluv 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she is having his baby, think about what he and his ex would want.
If him and his ex seem like they still want to be together, it might be a good idea to break it off.
You have only been going out since tuesday, and she is pregnant with his child.
2007-06-29 00:36:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be. His mind is on his baby. Why would you get your self in this situation. You are just there to be used until baby mama get back together again. You knew she was having his child so what ever you get is what you earned. How would you feel if you were in her shoes, She need her baby's daddy. lol
2007-06-29 00:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by MS Williams 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would be concerned. they still hang out, they are having a baby together, and you have been around for two days. i honestly don't see where you really fit into the picture at all. i'd move on.
2007-06-29 00:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should be worried specially if you are ''the new gf "and the two of you dont have that bond and that history as his ex. You should move on, he doesnt need that kind of stress of having you not trust him
2007-06-29 00:31:02 · answer #8 · answered by mimi66 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ohhhh... thats too bad to hear, if i were you, let ur bf stand with his oen feet, why do u find some guys which is sigle> he has his resposibilities from now own, and am sure that they'll still have communication with his ex gf..
2007-06-29 00:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by malagu 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Desperato why don't u come to your senses? Look up this song on utube. Your desperato!
2007-06-29 00:33:22 · answer #10 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋