Okay heres my story... lol.. I did that one thing most people do with my best friend.. and we were NOT dating or anything and i may have slept with his best friend, now the thing is when i did tell him he wants to act like he hates me and he told someone that he never wanted us to do anything in the first place and i know thats not true cuz it well it just isnt.. But this friend of his is still his best bud.. why the hell is that and what should i do.... i mean i still love him he was my BEST friend.. but i dont know what to do or say to get him back.. I just want to be friends i dont want him to hate me.. and i dont understand why the heck he can still be cool with this guy but not with me. He said he needed time to think and then he left for Basic Training so yeah i cant talk to him until he gets home but i dont know what to say... Anyone have any ideas....?????
2007-06-28 17:26:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I'm talking I shut up. Now if I am writing I keep it up in hope of finding the correct words. Maybe he thinks you have taken or added something to the relationship of which he is not ready for. If when he comes back you confront him and ask him straight out, all he can do is walk away. Here I go 'father confessor'.
2007-06-29 13:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by Coop 366 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm sure I wont be your best answer selection....but first things first...how about you keep your pants on and quit spreading your legs for everyone?
You sleep with your best friend, then you sleep with his best friend, then you wonder what you should do? Crazy.
He's freaked out because after you slept with him he probably figured that you two might have a future. You were best friends, which is ideal for making a real relationship. He probably wanted to make something good with you. Then you slap him in the face by sleeping with his other best friend.
And you made the choice to sleep with his friend, so he's more pissed at you than the guy friend. He should be pissed at both of you, but I can see where it's usually the women who controls who they sleep with and guys will take what they can get. And from the sounds of it, it wasn't too hard for the guy friend to get you.
You should apologize to your friend, get off your back, and straighten yourself up. And then maybe you can sort thru this mess you created.
2007-06-28 17:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab a Twix.
2007-06-28 17:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by Iron What? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋