I told Him I'd follow, He never showed up. Instead my life's going down. No job, no money, bills are do. Got hit by another vehicle today, guy had no insurance and ran from the scene. I'm a loser livee with my ma and pa. Everyone knows I'm a loser. So why won't he help me become a winner. I prayed today before the accident. But the accident still happend. God knows I've been depressed lately. If He loved me a little bit He wouldn't let unfortunate things like this keep happening at such a fragile time in my life.
2007-06-28 16:08:02 · 16 answers · asked by veronica r 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
listen, i understand that you feel like God has abandoned you. do you know how many times i sit in my room crying because my mom needs yet another surgery and my brother broke yet another bone (or tore a ligament, or got a concussion, etc.)? have you opened your Bible and let God speak to you through his Word? honey, he is spiritual, he isn't going to come down and talk to everyone who has a rough time. the Bible is what he had planned for us, he spoke it with YOU in mind, i'm sure. he is not ignoring you, maybe you just aren't seeing him. read the Bible, find a pastor you trust and talk to them. find a Christian counseling place. that's what i did. grow in your faith. get a job, and if you can't for any reason, do what it takes to get a job. finish school, go to college, get some references, volunteer (employers love that).
God doesn't do this to you. Satan does this to you. you told him you would follow, and now he wants to make sure. keep at it, girl. the more you work at growing in faith and getting rid of your sadness the better things will get. i know, i have been there. actually i was there about six months ago. trust me. get a friend in Christ and talk. please. i hope i have been some encouragement to you. i will pray for you, that you will get through this, that you will hear God, find God, and continue to love God. vaya con Dios!
2007-06-28 16:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by i live to laugh 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My child, there are many times when the existence of God is questioned. I don't have all the answer but I will ask you to remember that God helps those who help themselves. You need to have faith, just trust in Him and believe, cause if you have faith as small as a mustard seed you WILL move mountains.
You are presently feeling deserted, confused and all the wrong things. This is what the devil wants, he is laughing his head off, right now, but I implore you to remember Job. He could have cursed God and died as his wife had told him to do but instead he let the praises go up, and in the end although he lost everything, he got back much more. Just have faith. "The night ends with the break of a new day"
Take some time to read the Psalms sing a prayer chorus that you love and just pray to God speak as if He is right there beside you, cause you know what?, He is, and He has given His angels charge over you. It is normally during times of adversities that you can look in the sand at the footprints then you will know who's carrying who. As you speak to God feel free to let the tears flow, cause He knows what each tear represents, what you wanted to say and could not find words to say.Promise NEVER EVER to call yourself a loser. You are not!!! You told Him you would follow cause you became aware of His presence, He is still by you side. HAVE FAITH!!
2007-06-28 23:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by pearl n 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The truth is that once you become a Christian life gets really hard, He puts you through some trials and tests, the best thing you can do is just Praise Him through it, Thank Him all day long for the things that you do have that He hasnt taken, like food & water & air. Anyway the key here is to seek Him above everything else, let Him know you will praise Him even if He never blesses you and mean it, Praise Him just because He is God. If you have surrendered your entire life to Him and you have become a living sacrifice as you are told to do in Romans then you really have no right to complain, your life is His now not yours..let Him refine you with fire and He will get you where you belong. God will bring us "through" tough situations not "around" them. If you want someone to talk to stop into JesusChatRoom.com
Blessings to you.
2007-06-28 23:21:13 · answer #3 · answered by bob s 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to feel the Holy Spirit of God, in your heart and soul. Your not a looser, but sounds like you have your share of troubles. It says: God does not give us any more then we can handle. God Loves you a Lot. The connections are not being made and it is because your not totally sincere. You need to become very Humble. Start going to a good church, and read your Holy Bible. We all have our troubles, but when I am down and out, I take my troubles to the Lord and ask him to please forgive me, and guide me. Help Dear God, so that this person can soon see and feel the grace of Your Love. Bless this person and guide her/him. Let this person know that you Love her/him. Ask God to fill your body with the Holy Spirit. Don't forget to give Thanks for what you do have. I will pray for you, tonight. Take care and may God give you the strength you need to endure.
2007-06-28 23:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything Happens For A Reason
2007-06-28 23:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW TO FOLLOW GOD IS THE QUES.???i know in my heart that you cant see him icanfeel him almost every day of hour there men who have the blessing too see him i have had Revelation and sought Christ it all comes from faith reading bible and book of Mormon he does not let things happen the adversary [devil]just doe snot want us too close Jesus because he cant keep us con fuss .go too heavenly father ask him into your life. and every Mormon midday do the same and at night Doti again and when you feel adownibit down pray again find verse from bible or book Mormon and read it then find song AND BY THE WAY YOU ARE HERE TO WRITE THIS QUESTION HE IS STANDING NEXT TOO YOU!!!!!!YOU i wish there was a name I'm Katy you can email me @katyddidx2562YAHOO.COM LOWER CASE.!!!!
2007-06-28 23:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by katie 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
God doesn't run the welfare office. If you want a better life get off your butt and make it happen. Go to school, get a good job, Move out on your own. Don't think for a minute that god is going to poof up a big pile of cash just because you pray.
2007-06-28 23:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by Molliemae 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Don't lose faith in God. He is there and maybe testing you.
He knows all and will reward his followers.
You cannot see God but feel his presence all around,
smell the fragrance of flowers, see the Sun rise and Sunset.
Wait a little longer there must be a very good reason for
your own happiness.
2007-06-28 23:15:00 · answer #8 · answered by priya 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
God lives in your heart, He if you believe is already there..I have got a couple kids at home with me right now, that don't make them a loser either. They to get depressed as well as others but that don't make them a loser, as you can tell it upsets me when someone downs themselves, my kids have done that for years and I get upset them as well. For one thing God don't make losers, and He sure don't think of you as a loser either..things happen to all of us, it is a part of life, we just have to stay strong and go forward..He hasn't picked you out to have bad things happen to you, it just happens that's all. You just need to get into the Bible and get a personal relationship going with God, and get strong in Him. start building up your faith in Him...Joy
2007-06-28 23:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by pops 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
YOUR NOT A LOSER!!!! HE SHOWED UP YOU WERE JUST TO BUSY TO NOTICE YOU SEE ALL THE THINGS THAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU TRY TO CONTROL YOUR LIFE....PRAY RIGHT NOW AND ASK JESUS INTO YOUR HEART ASK HIM TO ORDER YOUR STEPS TELL HIM THAT YOU NEED HIM RIGHT NOW AND THAT HE IS IN CONTROL....BUT YOU HAVE TO HAVE FAITH FIND A CHURCH HOME READ THE BIBLE DAILY AND PRAY DAILY..LIFE IS HARD AND IT ALWAYS SEEMS LIKE EVIL ALWAYS "WINS" AND STUFF LIKE THAT BUT I PROMISE THIS LIFE IS VERY SHORT AND JESUS IS COMING BACK SOON HEAVEN OR HELL IS FOREVER....JUST HAVE FAITH PRAY GOD WILL HELP YOU I AM PRAYING FOR YOU TOO!!!! IT WILL BE OKAY YOU WOKE UP TODAY AND LIKE 3 MILLION OTHER PEOPLE DIDN'T!!!! GOD HAS A SPECIAL PLAN FOR YOU
2007-06-28 23:16:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋