Miscarriage?

Question

My friend told me a huge story about having a miscarriage, but I somewhat dont beleive anything she is saying because it seems sorta fishy. She claims it was a baby girl, but you cant tell the sex of the baby till about the 5th month and if she did have a miscarriage it would be a bigger deal. She wasnt even in the hospital and after it happened she was herself. Nothing affected her at all and she seemed perfectly fine as she was drinking the same night it happened and was having sex again. She has no proof of pregnancy and she didnt even tell her friends or family she was pregnant. Her ex boyfriend asked me to please help him out in trying to find out if she was really pregnant or if it was a way to keep him around longer.

1) Describe in detail what happens and what all goes on with a miscarriage.
2) Do you have a period afterwards?
3) Is greiving something uncommon?
4) How long till you can you have sex afterwards?

Please list anything else you think I would want to know

Answer 1

I had a very early miscarriage but if I hadn't been in fertility treatment, I might not even have known I was pregnant.

I bled like I had a period, only heavier.
It did take me a while to get over it because I had wanted so much to be pregnant.
I could have had sex shortly afterwards.

Still, your instincts seem right on the mark. Sounds like your friend enjoys playing games.

Answer 2

I don't know at what age your friend is, but some people
''need to tell untruths'', because, in their mind, that is the
only attention, THEY THINK THEY CAN GET.
I should know, a relative of mine, from the age of 15 to past
30, became a habitual liar / habitual runaway, sometimes
running away, from the truth.
But, ANYONE IS INNOCENT, TIL PROVEN GUILTY...
even when they've drinking, and may have ''imagined'' it.
LEARN TO BASE EVERYTHING ON ''FACTS'', AND NOT
HERESY.
Back to the Subject of Miscarriage....
I had 3 of them.
One happened in the middle of the night, while I was just
sleeping. The blood was very dark. I was young, and it
did scare me.
The blood was there, I cleaned up, and went to the doctor,
to make sure I did not have an infection, and I did ''follow
up treatment'' later too. (You can never be too careful when
it comes to your health.
I did not have a period, right away, but it did ''offset the time"
for when I had the next ''period''.
Miscarriages are not always, very traumatic, unless you are
well into the prenancy (which never happened to me), but
yes, a bit of grief, and some depression does take place.
Having a miscarriage, weakened my body, for a few days,
and I ''was glad'' for the time to have ''bedrest'', so I could
relax and recuperate properly, without putting more strain
on my female organs.
Having sex afterwards. That would be between you and
your doctor to decide, I think.

Answer 3

Soemtimes in an early miscarriage chromosome test will be done on what's passed to check for abnormailtites. This happened to a friend of mine, and they told my friend that is was a girl since the sex chromosoems were XX. She was only 6 weeks along and this was her 3rd miscarriage so that's why they did the testing.

After a miscarriage you can ovulate right away and get a period back right away.

Answer 4

You can tell the sex much earlier than the 5th month. That is the earliest reliable time for a sonogram. A miscarriage should result in a lot of bleeding. Sounds like your friend has some "issues." liar or not

Answer 5

I had a very early miscarriage years ago. I had just found out I was pregnant a week and a half before. I had some mild cramps and bled for 4 or 5 days. It is possible your friend had a miscarriage. It is also possible she's full of crap!

Answer 6

1. If she had the M/C at home, it would last about 3-4 hours. It is like delivering a baby.
2. She would bleed after but the lenght of time depends on the person.
3.People grieve differently.
4. You have a wait at least a week.
After my M/C on a wed, I was out with my friends on friday night. It helped me to be around positive energy. Otherwise i would have sat home and cried.
Hope this helps!