ok where do i begin. i love my grand mother shes the best so far. she just came here from the Caribbean last night. im 21 yrs old by the way. well my dad been treating her like a baby, i mean the lady can comb her own hair, bath on her own, eat on her own uses the bathroom on her own going up and down the stairs on her own, she can do everything on her own but my father is expecting me to stay in the house to watch after her when my fiance is coming home from overseas in 2 weeks were getting married and the thing is im moving out on august 6. cause im going crazy in the house my with my step mother cruella de ville. i loveeee my granny but i need some space i even sleep in the same room with her.
2007-06-28 13:36:41 · 3 answers · asked by dont fuck with me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i dont wanna pissed off my father but a girl need some space now and then you feel me how do i even begin telling my father im moving out. cause the first thing he'll think off is whose going to take care of my mother. but i cannot stand my step mother she is the snikiest cruella de ville everrrrr, the whole familly is going on vacation next thursday and she didnt even invited me when i take care of everything for her, i just cannot have her treat me like a dog anymore.plzzzzzzz help me out and plz do not judge me. try to understand
2007-06-28 13:37:58 · update #1
the sooner you leave that house the better for all. If you feel so badly treated esp. by your step mom, your presence can actually cause more friction and ill feelings. The other way out is, you HAVE TO be patient and tolerant for another few weeks when you get out of the house upon marriage, anyway. Maybe then you can get grama to come live with you (occasionally?). No intention to judge anyone here, just hope this can be of some help
2007-06-28 13:44:09 · answer #1 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your dad doesn't realize that your gram can take care of herself. how old is she? lots of men tend to think that their mom's are weak little creatures that need looking after 24/7. has you gram said anything about this?maybe she should talk to your dad.
2007-06-28 22:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to your dad grandma is not your responseability
and you need to have your own life.
if he gets upset it's too bad, but you need to be happy
2007-06-28 20:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by myddad 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋