I work 9 hrs/5 days a week. My man does 6hrs/4 days a week (nights).
Lately I've been thinking he would cheat on me. He tells me girls have flirted with him while he works or if they have a nice skirt on (that usually ends with him saying I should get one) he also tell me the size of the girl ass (but says mine is better).
He comes home to me, cooks, cleans when I ask, treats me like a princess and tells me he loves me everyday. He even freaks out at me when I get too stressed about anything (only cause he says I need to relax more). He doesnt even have an indication of cheating.
The only time I think this is when I'm at work and he's home alone (Sleeping most of the time). I just get the feeling he sneaks girls in and I even smell him (without him knowing) to see if he smells like another girls or if he's covered any smell up with deoderant or a shower. Which he never does.
Am I'm being too paranoid? Will this ruin my relationship if it keeps going?
2007-06-28 13:34:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you put yourself threw this type of torch-er? Paranoia ruins not only relationships, but "you" as well, for even going there. Until you have sound evidence, keep it cool! Try to figure out why you are not comfortable in a sound relationship. Maybe its because you think things are to good to be true and any day something is going to happen and end this. That is terrible mental abuse. Just relax and enjoy this. You do deserve it! :)
2007-06-28 13:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do need to be careful, you need to either confront him or relax. without trust you two wont make it. if he hasn't given you a reason to doubt him then just trust him! Let him know how you are feeling, but that you do trust him. Let him know you just need to get it out in the open so you can get it out of your head. he will reassure you and then you both can get on with you lives together
2007-06-28 14:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, it seems like the 2 of you are doing just fine, he seems to be a normal horny guy who wants to look at his gf's legs
2007-06-28 13:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by Greg 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really wanna knowthe answer then yeah you are but if you want to know the truth install a hidden cam inside your house for a day or two or a week (seriously)
2007-06-28 13:39:25 · answer #4 · answered by rockin'_the_world 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋