i will be 18 in 1 year and he will be 18 this august, his mom already call me a daughter in law. his entire family treats me like family. we are madly in love.
2007-06-28 13:00:19 · 15 answers · asked by Chelsea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
That's great and all..but seriously, wait. Wait until you are at least 21. You'll learn SOO much in those three years after highschool, and it is so important. But sometimes you just have to make your own mistakes. Best of luck.
2007-06-28 13:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are both so lucky to find that level of acceptance by your families this young. Your love will sustain you until your birthdays, I promise. Use this time wisely. Prepare for your lives together. Have the deep discussions about how you want to spend your lives together, kids, faith, how you're going to keep your relationship fresh, and NEVER let it become mundane. You two will spend so much time together as a married couple. It all won't be fun and games. s... happens to the best of us. DO you have a communication skill learned so when things go south, you can get through it without tearing each others heads off? All these things and much much more are critical to have in place before you say I do. Spend this time together working these things out. Your eventual marriage will be stronger for it.
Oh yea... go to college, get a good carreer, and have a wonderful life together.
Good Luck
2007-06-28 23:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, wait to get married. And not just till you are 18. Wait a few years - you could have a long (3-4 year engagement). If you are going to be together for the rest of your lives anyway a few more years without getting married won't hurt. Go away to college together. You'll get your own dorm rooms but won't be too far away from each other. Your relationship will survive if it is meant to and with some hard work. I know a bunch of people who met their spouses in high school (including myself) and everyone waited at least until they got their bachelors degrees or longer to get married.
2007-06-28 21:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by JM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let the year roll by, you don't even know each other yet, take this time to make sure its right, I'm with the love of my life and we are finally tying the knot at 21 and 22 July 7th, we met when we were 15 and 16. Be patient, because fools rush in.
2007-06-28 20:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by TwinMomma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're madly in love, waiting 1 yr won't change anything but your anniversary. That yr will give you time to plan your wedding anyway. There shouldn't be a rush.
2007-06-29 01:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by K S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you can make a living. Other than that, go for it. Just don't quit on the marriage later on. Divorce is more of a mess than sticking it out about 90% of the time. It's really rough on kids too.
2007-06-28 20:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by fuzz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't even past the legal drinking age, you can't go out anywhere, you don't go to university etc.
Wait until you are at least 21 so you can experience your youth before you jump into something like marriage.
2007-06-28 20:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by twice. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Still going to have to wait to 18. both sets of parents have to sign off that the marriage is ok.
2007-06-28 20:05:25 · answer #8 · answered by pspoptart 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it is real love and yall were really meant to be then marriage can wait til you are both mature responsible adults.
2007-06-28 20:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by songless bridesmaid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage that early rarely works out. if you go to college you're going to meet many new and more interesting people and you will be tempted. there is no appropriate age for marriage but if there was it wouldn't be under 25. live a little before you close your life out to the world.
2007-06-28 20:06:21 · answer #10 · answered by Mars 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋