I met this guy about 3 weeks ago and we hit it off fine. Now he's not as attentive as before and he hasn't call me in 2 days where as he used to call me 2 to 3 time every day. It's not sex because our relationship hasn't reach that level, mutual agreement. What could have made him change and I notice he's bought a webcam. Could it be that he's found a new interest?
2007-06-28 11:01:30 · 6 answers · asked by Bobbie T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good guys aren't hard to find at all, women just pass us by because they want the more exciting and fun "bad boys". Then when the bad boys break your heart you fall back on your friends crying about how bad men are. Duh...you picked him. Nice guys are everywhere. We are the mundane men in the background of your life that you never seem to notice, we are that friend that chats with you about everything but you don't notice that we like you, we are the ones that smile whenever you come around but realize we can't be with you because you are dating the ****** instead. Yeah, we might not be as attractive, or as exciting, hell we might not even in your league socially/economically...but we are here. We are waiting for you women to notice us, to stop and realize that we would love to date you, and for you to stop being so shallow. And it's really ironic that we always read about how you women are looking for a good guy and how you want to be treated...we want to adore you and we are right here!
2007-06-28 11:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have several good guy friends, good jobs, in shape, who haven't dated in years. They find worthwhile women imposable to find.
Your guy had an initial infatuation and found out things about you or things just weren't going that well in his view. If you were really hitting it off, no way would he have traded a real woman for some web-cam chick.
2007-06-28 11:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by ninebadthings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a lesson from the book.....
He's just not that into you.
Sorry, that's just the way it goes.
As far as good men being able to find, take a look around you, you are probably just missing a great man and you dont' even know it.
2007-06-28 11:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good men aren't that hard to find, women just don't want to put in the time to train them anymore. They expect them to be cookie cutter ready made and it doesn't happen that way.
2007-06-28 11:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good men are hard to find because women put up with their crap in the first place. Our race let them think it was ok. Females are the only ones to blame, we killed good men just like we killed chivalry
2007-06-28 11:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
But a Hard man is good to find
2007-06-28 11:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋