what do women really want. no matter what i do or how i treat them i cant find a good one?

Answer 1

Honestly, I used to be this "respectful guy" the one in the PG movies who you wished he would end up with the girl at the end the "nice guy". and guess what...it never worked. Then I remember when I was 7 years old and all the girls wanted me, including the older ones... and why is that? because i was more interested in myself, playing sports and riding my bike all around town trying to cause mayhem. Guess what? girls LOVE that! Im not telling you to better your looks or go try out for the football team, or hop on a harley...but for some reason...IT WORKS!!! why? because girls like the Rated R Guy! they dont want a guy who sits back and waits for a girl to make the move. 1)that shows lack of confidence 2) shows lack of motivation to get what you want and 3) shows you have to imagination...

...which brings me to this... Girls LOVE, ABSOLUTELY love it when a guy is spontaneous and keeps them on their toes. Get creative, Show some self worth, Dont be immature or else you will find yourself with a not so "good girl". And most importantly dont lose yourself, always be respectful, show patience but be a go getter!

Answer 2

This is difficult because all women are different. Most GOOD girls like someone who is honest, fun, has a softer side, but a little bad boy touch. Just watch your ego. Women do NOT like guys with the macho guy ego. And if you want a meaningful relationship, find that quality in a girl or else you will end up with one night stands.

Answer 3

No matter what anyone says, every woman is different, therefore every woman looks for something different. Just be yourself and she'll like you for that, or try to be someone you're not to "win" her for the time being. It all depends on what you're looking for - the right now, or the right one. Set your standards high and ditch the whole "game" thing. Be patient, a good one will come along when you least expect it.

Answer 4

Depends on the age. As teens we just want someone to hang out with. Share the same things in common. As we get into our 20's we are just discovering what makes us, well us. In our 30's we start to make choices that build the rest of our lives. So if you want to find a good one you need to start looking at the things that make you happy and find someone with similar interests.

Answer 5

women want to be loved. All we are looking for is a guy that respects us, treats us well, and really listens to what we have to say. Soon you will find the girl of your dreams. dont give up.

Answer 6

Well I dont know about all the other girls but I know what I want. I want a man who treats me with respect. I dont like a man hoovering over me all the time, If I go out with my friends, dont start calling me or texting me. I also want someone who fun and full of suprises. I need adventure in my life...

Answer 7

Women don't want to have their butts kissed all the time. They are attracted to a guy who is confident and good. You should pay more attention to working on yourself and worry less about how you treat them and you'll start attracting them.

Answer 8

everyone has different wants, but a good place to start that I think everyone agrees with is - they need to be attractive (and that is a matter of perspective, what I think is attractive you could think is ugly), respectful, honest and loyal. treat your girl like she is the only woman out there. be confident with yourself and not too needy.

Answer 9

u must be lookin in the wrong place. there are lots of women out there, just an awful lot of the time they want jerks. but dont be a jerk. just be patient and one of these days u'll come across a girl who's nice and smart and just all around great who just wants you to be nice and respectful and to love her unconditionally.

Answer 10

Boy, I've found lots of good ones. Maybe you're looking in the wrong place or maybe you don't know what good is.