I'm 19, she's 50ish. She's still good looking and has a good personality. Oh, and she's kinda RICH!!! I like older women, girls my age are boring and not mature enough for me.
But is she too old??? Would you date someone older than your parents?
2007-06-28 09:08:40 · 10 answers · asked by Moxie! 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
1.It is NOT wrong if...:
-if you are okay with it (if you don't care what other ppl, mainly your close ones, parents, friends etc will think and say);
-if she is okay with it (if she doesn't care........);
-if your parents are okay with it (in case you still need their permission and support).
2. I probably could try to date even someone of the age of my grandparents - but only in theory and just to realise that it won't work out in my case!
3. Definitely 50-year-old women have much more savings than 19-year-old girls! (But think a little: do you really need her money THAT badly?! if at all...)
2007-06-28 09:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by Alexandra L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm... I wouldn't suggest it, but I understand why you would feel this way about people your age... I'm not into anyone below the age of 25 (I'm 28). I've found that there are too many big life changes that happen in that age range, and a sound solid relationship could change within a matter of days for a person in that group.
As far as dating someone older than my parents- I wouldn't do that. Your needs and hers are two different things. Your interests may be similar, but do you really want to be in a relationship with someone who is almost ALWAYS your superior? Wouldn't you want a level of intellectual equality involved? If you're looking to share a chunk of your life, I would think you'd want the path of discovery to be with someone who still has discoveries to make.
2007-06-28 09:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
In my standards its a bad theory, 12 years is two lots of an age hollow yet you mustn't care what i think of yet it truly is how i glance at it. If he's 30 why isn't he already married, engaged or in a protracted courting? that pronounces to me that somethings up with this guy probable. Y interior the international is he searching for and attempting to get 18 year olds? i'm happy you have a rule approximately intercourse it incredibly is particularly respectful yet 3 months devoid of intercourse aint a huge deal to me. you have been in this courting for basically 3 months, it hasnt had time to truly fail yet, yet i won't be able to tell you to run removed from happiness reason thats no longer top, everyone merits to be happy yet somethings telling me which you will be happy with yet another guy lots closer on your age, in case you 2 could get married he'd be an previous guy on a similar time as your a nevertheless relitively youthful woman. i do no longer think of it truly is a robust theory and that i think of you will be injury interior the long-term. you may % sweetheart, each each now and then its terrific to get removed from what makes you happy, different situations you in basic terms could desire to stay with it and learn from the journey. in case you may get married he could at last initiate drinkin in front of you and could substitute into abusive, YOU HAVENT been with him long adequate to kno any of this for constructive however so do no longer say he's unlike that, time does loopy $hit to human beings and issues ought to alter.
2016-10-19 01:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
>Would you date someone older than your parents?
No chance. And when you're 50ish, she'll be 80ish. You'll probably be more interested in meeting 19 year olds by then than her....
2007-06-28 09:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by Rossonero NorCal SFECU 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't date someone older than my parents because they would be in their 80s. It depends on if you two have a mutual attraction and are simpatico or not.
2007-06-28 09:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Morally, not really. Practically, yea. There get's to be weird mother/child relations that you don't want to delve into. It's not going to be on purpose, but it's gonna happen, and ruin the relationship.
2007-06-28 09:12:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're both adults, it may be a little weird but go ahead. It's just dating.
2007-06-28 09:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your avatar is any idication of your sex,then it's wrong on a spiritual level.
But if the you like that person and the other person likes you;then I see no problem with it.
2007-06-28 09:13:28 · answer #8 · answered by Maurice H 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It's completely wrong.
(Can I have her phone #, does she like red heads?)
2007-06-28 09:11:49 · answer #9 · answered by LabGrrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's not wrong as long as you two love each other
2007-06-28 09:13:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋