I mean, I'm pleaseantly plump and I dont suffer from this disease but there are many fat dudes that feel this way. I.. for one have pretty good luck but I guess my blessings and good self confidence have helped. ladies please help my jiggly belly buddies with the answer to this question.
2007-06-28 08:58:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know some great looking women who won't date fat guys, unless they got something else great going for them like lots of money. When it comes to dating, being in great shape helps both ways. It's time to do some sit-ups guys!
2007-06-28 09:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
the ladies here are correct its all about confidence and attitude.
im a good looking guy and im fairly fit at 5'8 160 lbs.
compared to my friend who is 5'10 230 smokes, has acne scars and not the best set of chicklets(teeth)
but one thing he has and thats confidence. when he walks in the room people notice because the way he presents himself the way he walks and his very good posture screams ......."when i walk in the room gets still, i dont know to put this but im kind of a big deal"
and people feed on confidence because confidence means a good time and a party has finally begun.
but alot of overweight people feel they have no one they can lean on so they depend on food to help them emotionally which isnt healthy and it creates depression which creates a feel of being alone which repeats to more depression and more food.
it becomes their persona and they just become a big rain cloud and girls dont want that. they want that sense of a mentally stable man that has the confidence of someone like a tom brady, peyton manning, hugh hefner and all those people that are on their high horses
2007-06-28 16:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by mannyg2199 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are too busy checking out the blond bimbos that are chasing after the Jocks. They are forgetting to look at the quiet girls behind those Blondie's that would love to date and they aren't necessary DESPERATE!!! These are the girls with kind hearts and caring souls. Not everyone is going to be able to snag the Heidi Klums in this world and maybe they are being a little short sighted over looking someone that might be standing right in front of them.
2007-06-28 16:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by Grandma of 2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Awww, I don't know. I'm a size 1 and I'm 5'7". My husband is not a small dude. He's 6'2" and he's a little chunky but I don't mind he's still a cutie. I don't like scrawny guys! You're right I think confidence has everything to do with it. Even if you are a skinny guy with no confidence we can pick up on it.
2007-06-28 16:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by Meichelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
low self esteem and fear of rejection. stereotyped stories about that ladies go for looks and physical appearance in a guy. that is not true there are a lot of women who would date fat guys as long as they don't run out of breath after walking down the isle at a super market.
2007-06-28 16:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by bluebutterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because they have low self esteem and don't want to risk rejection...I say just go for it. I'm not necessarily a skinny girl...in fact, I'm a little chubby myself...I like to refer to it as "curvy", but whatever...anyways, honestly, I tend to go for the bigger guys, I find they're usually much nicer, sweeter, and I love cuddling on the couch, and I like to have someone who I can actually cuddle with.
2007-06-28 16:04:41 · answer #6 · answered by meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a self fulfilling prophecy. They tell themselves that they are fat and ugly and can't get women. This lowers their self-esteem and makes them look unappealing so no one will date them. They do it to themselves. They just need to work on their self-confidence and they will be just fine.
2007-06-28 16:02:51 · answer #7 · answered by from_a_dark_place 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the plumpier men.....when i cuddle with them i feel nice and cozy. I hate real big men like weight lifters they make me feel like i cant eat junk food and i love to snack!
The most important thing is too have a great sense of humor, too me that's the biggest turn on ever!
2007-06-28 16:18:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are plesantly plump and not actually fat. its one thing to be cute a chubby and another to be 200lbs overweight. im not a stuck up girl but i want a man that can take care of hiself and be clean and healthy not someon wayyyy over weight
2007-06-28 16:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by Honey Badger Doesnt give a Shat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a chick, and I personally like some meat on my bones!
The bigger, the better, and the safer I feel.
Nothing better than a big man wrapped around you.
And I'm tiny! 5'2, 120 lbs!
Fat Pig:
You're one sexy beast!
Grrrrrrr! LOL
2007-06-28 16:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by batmantis1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋