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My family is very abusive to me =(. My mother and Father always drink, and I guess cause of the alcohol, they think I'm some sort of punching bag. I'm scared everyone will treat me like this. I have no friends, the public seems to hate me. To make matters worse, once I was walking to the store to buy food, and I got rapped. I am now traumatized of society. I may commit suicide. unless I get some serious help, but no one seems to wanna help me, cause my family thinks I'm no reason to live, and they would never support me. They give me food to eat, and that's all. Most the time I need to make my own food though. Please help me. =(

2007-06-28 08:29:14 · 8 answers · asked by Saddened Soul. 1 in Family & Relationships Family

I'm a 13 year old girl.

2007-06-28 08:50:05 · update #1

8 answers

Honey get out!!! You need to go to the police, a school counselor, pastor of a church, anyone that you know you can trust. Don't be afraid, I know that these people have probably played mind games with you, "You tell and I'll kill you" etc etc. But don't listen to them you can get help and you can get out. You are in serious danger from them and even yourself if you are thinking about suicide. Just remember someone out there wants to help you and can help you. Not everyone will treat you badly. I was sexually molested by a family member as a child, told that if I told, God would punish me by taking away everyone I loved, that my mother would disown me, all kinds of horrible stuff. When I finally told years later none of that happened. Get out and get help. You are in my prayers, remember that God always loves you.

2007-06-28 09:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by berydivine 2 · 0 0

How old are you?

If you're being abused by alcoholics, then you need to contact child protective services and have yourself put into foster care. Even a group home is better than abuse.

I don't want to stuff religion down anyone's throat but going to church has helped me get over a lot of hard times. You might want to see a minister for some help in your situation. If they can't help you personally, perhaps the minister can at least point you in the direction of someone who will. And if the first minister won't listen - or is afraid to listen (some are!) then remember, there's a church practically on every street corner. Try to find a church that has a youth program - or at least an active youth minister.

Hey, it's worth a try.

2007-06-28 08:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0 0

call the crisis hotline. there is a lot of people out there that care about you. i really think u need to reach out and speak to your guidance counselor and get some help immediately. do u have a grandparent or uncle or aunt u could stay with it he meantime. u obviously need help and u need to reach out to people and tell them so they can do something for you. im sorry about your situation. feel better. good luck!

2007-06-28 08:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 0 0

omg that is sooo sad well go to a nother family member and stay there like your nana or aunt and tell them what has been going on!!! have a great life good luck!!!!!! e mail me to talk to me about anything k?

2007-06-28 08:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by FALLBALL 09!! 2 · 0 0

i dont know if you are in school or not but i presume you are. if you are in school then contact your school counsellor or princepal immidiately. you should go to the police and report the rape. i was not your fault. why should you die? your parents are horrible people. be strong. please contact child service immidiately.
please dont commit sucide. these horrible people are abusing you. you are a victim. i want to talk to you if you like. i would love to be your friend. my im is shown here. please contact me if you like.

2007-06-28 08:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0 0

go to your local police station, explain your situation and ask to be placed in foster care, if you're a minor.

2007-06-28 08:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by Ruth M 1 · 0 0

Honey, where state do you live in? And how old are you?

2007-06-28 08:38:04 · answer #7 · answered by onethinone 1 · 0 0

CALL 211 IF YOU LIVE IN MIAMI, FL. IF YOU LIVE SOMEWHERE ELSE JUST TRY TO SEE IF IT WORKS.

2007-06-28 12:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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