my dad is picking me up for an hour. my mom says i have to go. i only see him twice a year. my brothers see him every week. i hate his girlfriend. i told him i wanted to go to the mall with him for one hour on the phone. now i changed my mind. what should i do? i really dont feel like going anywhere right now. i made a commitment saying i would go. my mom wont let me call him back because i changed my mind. how can i get out of it? what if i gotta pee? what if i get sick in the car? what if i get bored? what if i dont wanna go? help
2007-06-28 08:23:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well maybe spending time with your dad can make you two closer... i mean not in an hour but over time... your lucky your dad wants to spend time with you! im 16 and i had a huge fight with my dad (who i dont live with) and he told my mom to have my step dad adopt me and my sisters because he doesnt want us anymore... problem with that is that i have two little brothers that live with him.... and as far as his girlfriend my step mom even though shes the mother of my brothers is a total witch! just look at it this way... someone always has it worse than you... maybe you'll have fun! you never know until you try!! good luck
2007-06-28 08:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE TO GO. You told your dad that you wanted to go with him now you have to. You did make a commitment to your father. I have been through this same thing. Now my father's girlfriend is his wife. You have to realize that the things that you do now will influence your relationship with your father in the future. You are probably going to need him at some point and it's best that you don't push him away now. So go and have fun. I'm sure that he will buy you a lot of nice things since he doesn't see you that often. If you need to pee you can find a restroom I'm sure. If you get sick in the car your father can pull over. And how can someone get bored while shopping. If you do get bored just exprexx to your father that you would like to do something else in the mall. HAVE FUN!
2007-06-28 08:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by Phyllis P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am on no account interested by detailed forces and Buffy Ninja variety stuff. But I feel it might be very moneymaking for dad & daughter to take tai chi or karate in combination. Girls don't seem to be taught self-safeguard within the USA, they usually will have to. Add that to exceptional time with daddy, and it seems like a winner. TX Mom P.S. My daughter, 21 has been swimming considering age eight. She could make it to the highest of the rock climber, making use of the proper coloured handholds, quicker than her 6' tall bf can get to the highest keeping any handholds he can succeed in. Swimming=Strong fingers, legs, abs.
2016-09-05 10:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by arieux 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, why don't you want to see your dad? Is he abusing/molesting you in any way or are you just being a selfish, spoiled brat?
If he's abusing you - then tell your Mom or tell the police.
If it's because you don't like his girlfriend and the fact that your folks are separated/divorced - then you're just being bratty and mean.
There are an awful lot of absentee dads out there - Be glad and grateful your dad wants anything to do with you at all.
2007-06-28 08:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take a strong laxative and spend an hour in toilet instead
2007-06-28 08:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋