we have been enaged for a while now and there is this girl (his neighbour) our common friend who he ealier introduced to me as his causin. one day i went to his phone only to find out that he sends her sms addressing her "sweetheart, bebe, darling and etc... am really hear broken and even scared of loving anymore. i do not beleive anymore in marriage. please help me out!!
2007-06-28 07:11:44 · 8 answers · asked by Elsy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be the better woman! Pick your pants up, breath and go confront them both at the same time. If you think this is too hard, wait and see if you can get them in a 'situation' (not one you'd like) and then ask for an explanation! That way they cannot say those sms are just bla,bla,bla.
Then pack your/his things and GO! End of story...next page.
Life is too compicated already!
2007-06-28 07:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by Belchiq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your man is hiding something from you.
You need to confront him and the neighbor immideatly.
I know you don't want to, and your scared.
But you can't marry him wondering if he's still cheating on you with the neighbor!
Ask your Fiance about it, if he refuses to talk, or lies to you, tell him that you're confronting her about it.
If all goes wrong, break up with him, i know it hurts honey but you have to be strong. Be strong and have confidence in what you believe in.
God bless!!
2007-06-28 14:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a lot of people who use those types of endearments, and they aren't meant romantically-I have a bad habit of calling everyone sweetie, or hun...
before you jump the gun and assume the worst, talk to him about what you saw...communication is a cornerstone in a relationship.
2007-06-28 14:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Better to find this out before marrying rather than after you are married*... Its time to get a new man*...
2007-06-28 14:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a liar. Would you marry a liar?? Move on. You are much better off with out him
2007-06-28 14:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by Diego 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do NOT trust the guy then get rid of him why be w/ someone who you can't trust , trust is one of the things that hold a relationship together
2007-06-28 14:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better ask him staright forward.............its better finding now then later
2007-06-28 14:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by gina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what's the problem?
2007-06-28 14:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by scott m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋