We have'nt went to court yet we go in one week. He was currently on house arrest at our place when my best-friend called the cops on him because he wouldn't stop grabbing me to stop me from destorying his box(house arrest box) while tryin to kiss me and calm me down. Should we seek help together
2007-06-28 07:05:25 · 12 answers · asked by mestylz83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Please go your separate ways....then you should each seek help separately. If, some day in the future, after you both have been through therapy, you feel able to reconnect, give it another try...but this relationship does not sound healthy at all, and even if you try therapy together, it is too dangerous for you two to be together until you have both dealt with your individual issues.
2007-06-28 08:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a scene from cops that didn't make the final cut. It sounds to me like he already got help. That's why he's under house arrest. You on the other hand need help. Why would you try to destroy his "box." This man is trying to get his life back together and you basically try to send him back to jail. Get help, and leave the man's "Box" alone.
2007-06-28 07:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by orcena550 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At what point would you expect any of us to say it's okay to stay with a guy who has been arrested for aggressively touching you?
At what point would you think it's okay to stay with a guy who has been arrested for aggressively touching you?
You should both seek help, but I'm not sure it's a good idea to do it together. At least start with individual counseling to figure out where your minds are at...if you get through that and are still willing to try to work it out, then try couples counseling.
FYI, be glad for your friend...
2007-06-28 07:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by abfabmom1 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
get away from this loser, he's on house arrest for a reason, bc hes a dead beat, now hes being aggresive towards u. leave him!
2007-06-28 08:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run as fast as you can because he will eventually become violent.
2007-06-28 07:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by bern 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. He's abusing you. End of story.
2007-06-28 07:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd say go your seperate ways, you both sound crazy!!!!
2007-06-28 08:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ ☼ ♥ ☼ LOVE MY LABS!! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is crazy - go your own ways.
2007-06-28 07:46:21 · answer #8 · answered by molly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:o this all happened at a wedding?! what a lot of drama
2007-06-28 07:08:05 · answer #9 · answered by Christina V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to get away from each other
2007-06-28 07:08:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋