Why Don't Guy's like Fat Chicks?

Question

How come guys will just not talk or flirt with girls who just have a little bit of wight you worried what your friends might say or something??

Answer 1

for the same reason girls won't talk to "bigger boys"?

besides, it is not nice to generalize all people like that

Answer 2

That's a bit of a generalisation, but a good observation. I've noticed this too. the bigger people are, the less attention they get from the opposite sex. I've put on more than a stone in the last year or so, and i don't get as much attention as i used to. it really doesn't bother me coz i know it's about the person within not the person on the outside. if a guy's not interested in me coz I'm a few pounds overweight then he simply isn't worth the time!

But on the flip side I'd rather be curvy than look like these frail looking "size zero" girls, coz i know a lot of guys who say they don't like really skinny girls either, they'd rather have a girl with some curves. A really good looking guy said this to me also, so it goes to show. Even big girls can get good looking guys!

Answer 3

Guys at some age are mostly interested in how a woman looks like - and some girls too like to have handsome boyfriends, so their friends will see and say "wow, look who she's dating!" People like others to envy them, allthough that's not the best thing, not even on far. Especially for guys who have a great pride and want to be seen with the best looking chicks. Having a good looking, slim, f*ckable girlfriend is a reason to envy by the other guys, and I can see that brings them the greatest satisfaction, makes them very proud.
You don't want to date this kind of guy, do you? :)
Besides, being fat is not a limit that can't be crossed, it is something that can change and will most likely change.

Answer 4

OK Here are some tips from a fat woman who has always been fat - and has never been without a handsome man at her side.

Love yourself enough to work at losing the weight and getting into shape. I like Weight Watchers because I don't have to alter the food I eat - just the portions. I'm not that successful at losing weight - but I do try.

Develop talents and abilities that are attractive to all kinds of people- music, art, conversation, cooking, entertaining etc...That way people will flock to be around you - and some of those are men.

Look at people as people - not as pretty faces. Scientist Steven Hawking is perhaps the sexiest man on the planet - ALS notwithstanding. So try looking beyond the pretty face and into the soul. You'd be surprised at how many men - handsome men at that - are amazed that you actually care about them as humans instead of arm candy.

And don't worry about those shallow people who are mean to you - just let them burn themselves out at 22. It's OK.

Answer 5

I think it is a social status. If you have a ''fat'' girlfriend you arent ''cool'' . Or they dont want to be seen out with a ''fat *****''. This is coming from a woman who has had weight struggles. I lost a lot of weight and as soon as I did men would flirt with me a lot more when I was a bit overweight They wouldnt notice me at all. I think you should wait for a man who loves you the way you are, you shouldnt have to change just to please some guy that doesnt like they way you look.

Answer 6

I believe it si due to lack of experience. Before I met my wife, I was with a girl for 5 almost 6 years that weighed about 100 lbs. She was a rail. Its not that that was my preference, shes just who I ended up with. Well, after her, I never thought I could be with a girl bigger than her. When I met my wife she was your average 120 lbs or 130 lbs girl, and that was cool. Well after 2 kids, my wife now has some some more weight to her which of course resulted in some extra "baggage".....but ya know what? As much as she hates the extra baggage, I love it! I think that it fills her out a little more and it works really well. So if a guy is completely against dating a "fat" girl, its probably due to lack of experience and knowledge. And of course, you do have some guys who are just arrogent assholes.....

Answer 7

There are many reasons...

1. I have noticed that thinner women taste, smell and feel better.
2. There is an inherent healthiness about low body fat.
3. Sex with a thinner woman is more enjoyable because there are things you just can't do with heavier women.
4. Being in control of your weight says a lot about the kind of person you are. It says you are capable, disciplined and healthy.
5. Men are VERY visually stimulated and thin is much more beautiful.
6. The biggest thing for men I talk to is that women who are overweight ACT overweight. Thinner women, flirt more, feel sexier so they act sexier... and a women who regularly exercises usually have a higher labido, which is very important to a man. I haven't met a guy who would willfully choose a low labido.
7. What kind of girl you can attract is a sign of your value (I don't go for this but it's a general fact)

I think heavier women can be beautiful, kind, caring and wonderful people... but I would prefer a person that is in control of their life, which includes their health/weight.

Answer 8

I have a friend that is big, shes about a size 24 i guess, she never had a problem pulling a guy, she has so much confidence and is really pretty, not only that, she makes the best of herself and is ok about her weight, i think if a woman is big but uncomfortable about her weight then guys are gonna see that and maybe not approach her. Fat or thin, it all comes down to confidence and not forgetting that we all have preferences with the opposite sex, whether thats hair colour, height or build. If a man doesn't like big women, he doesn't like em, not much you can do about it!

Answer 9

Most guys don't mind being with a bigger girl- they often just don't want their friends to see. There has been a stigma attached to the fat chick for as long as I can remember. But - I know for a fact that most guys (especially as they get older) will not mind sneaking one out of the back door at a bar or party for a little roll in the hay. I even have a buddy that says"Big girls need love to" and has tailored his dating around this credo.

Answer 10

Well I have three reasons, the first reason is associated with health. I think that inherently people are attracted to people who look or are healthy. For reproductive purposes, people seek out a mate who will give birth to healthy offspring. Men who are just looking to date a woman probably just want someone who looks "good" as in healthy, or maybe they just don't want to have sex with someone heavy.

The second, just as some girls can be, some guys are really shallow. They don't care how a person acts, or how the person makes them feel emotionally. They don't care how smart or funny or other nice characteristics, they'd rather have a skinny B!tch, who would treat them like sh!t, is air headed, or shallow herself.

Finally, other guys just prefer a woman who is skinny. They might just be attracted to them. There are plenty of guys who are attracted to "big girls". They appreciate that they have weight on them as long as they are healthy, nice, smart, and enjoyable.

Don't worry, you'll find a mate who loves, and respects you for who you are, not just because of your weight!

Answer 11

As a self-proclaimed FAT GIRL!! I don't have problems. For every guy that won't talk to me, there is one that will. Everybody is different with different likes and dislikes. Some people don't find fat attractive. Some people see it as a challenge. Some people (and these are the ones to deal with) get to know a person before excluding them as a friend and/or possible girlfriend.