He says he likes me and that it would be a greater pain to rush into something and fail... and he wants to take it slow.. what exactly does that mean? Is he still interested?
2007-06-28 06:11:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh, definitely. look darling you've got a good one there. most guys don't want to take anything slow. i know from personal experience. i would try to get "there" as soon as possible when i was younger. then as i got older establishing a real connection became the most important thing. so, yeah take it slow. he means what he says.
2007-06-28 06:16:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Guys pride there "bachelorness" and they don't give it up easily.Kind of like girls and their Virginity.When a guy says he wants to take it slow it could be for a number of reasons, 1)he isn't really ready for commitment,2)He is unsure whether it's lust or love,3)He has been hurt in the past and doesn't want to put himself in a situation where he will be vulnerable,4)Guys want to take it slow on the emotional and lovey dovey stuff,they don't have a problem with the physical side of the relationship.Hope this helps!
2016-05-21 23:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's interested alright. He wants to make the relationship last longer by not kissing you on the first date and that kind of stuff. He won't do that until like the fifth or even seventh date so that you will get to know each other better first he wants to make it a real relationship so that you will be really in love before he makes any moves. He's going to try to make the relationship deep and meaningfull and once again make it last a whole lot longer than a normal relationship. I agree with him that its a greater pain to rush into something and fail. That means that he doesn't want to like make out with you on the second date and realize that you don't like him that way. He wants the relationship to go on for a while and then make out (or something like that) and see if its right for you. That way if you actually like him you won't brake up with him because hes a bad kisser or something stupid like that.
2007-06-28 06:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he's into u but he just rather not rush into a relationship. If u move too soon then it falls throught u end up hurt, he just want to take time to get to know each other which is a good thing, more people should be this way it might make for a longer more trusting relationship.
Good Luck
2007-06-28 06:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he likes you very much he just doesn't want to get into a relastionship that might not last to long and when you guys break up it will cause you to split apart and no longer socialize. Just go with the flow and don't worry. he still likes you. if you wait you'll have more of a chance then you do know. He seems like a guy who will treat you right so that is deffently worth waiting. Good luck.
2007-06-28 06:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm i've heard this one several times.
1- it could mean he really likes you and doesn't want you to think he is only after sex (ie he most likely will not drop you if you don't put out within 3 dates).
2- it could also mean that he is playing you as well.
The best test for this is time. Don't let him pressure you into anything... if you are not intimate with him within the first 3 dates and he is still around... even after 10 dates.. chances are he was serious and meant what he said.
You could just out and out ask him. thats always good too.
2007-06-28 06:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but it probably means he is wanting to take things slow with you. My friend was told these exact words and she believed the guy meant he truly treasured what they had and did not want to ruin things. A week later she found out he had already been dating someone else and was not taking it slow with her.
2007-06-28 06:19:54 · answer #7 · answered by Jane Barleycorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has been hurt in the past and he doesn't want to experience the same thing. He just wants to take it slow and get to know you more. Don't be worried I am sure he is interested. It sounds like he respects you though.
2007-06-28 06:16:55 · answer #8 · answered by Brandon 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds more like he is scared of messing up something he thinks may turn out to be really great. Maybe he has a few failed relationships in the past and wants to get the next one right.
2007-06-28 06:14:53 · answer #9 · answered by 0 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes he is still interested but hes sayin he rly does like u but he wants to take things slow because if he rushes then things will mostlikly get out of hand and it will work better if things are slower ( its a fact) Tip: if u rly do like this guy listen to him it sounds like he knows what hes doing and i hpope things work out he sounds like a great guy. u should be thankful hes 1 in a few guys that say that so yea.....................Good Luck
2007-06-28 06:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by I love you babe<33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋